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What's messing with your groove?

#31181 User is offline   Maark Abbott 

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Posted 21 October 2025 - 07:37 AM

View PostTiste Simeon, on 21 October 2025 - 07:05 AM, said:

View PostMaark Abbott, on 21 October 2025 - 06:14 AM, said:

Trying for the life of me to work out why our government seems to be bending over backwards to accommodate a football firm with a track record for public disorder.

Yeah this one has gone way too far in the "trying to appease Israel for some reason" thing. Like the Tel Aviv derby game was cancelled because of violence between the fans. Does that make the Israeli police anti-Semitic too? Obviously not.


it's just nuts to me to see this happening. Why are we as a country attempting to appease a nation conducting an active genocide. Why do we want to curry favour with them. I suspect that I'll not like the answer, whatever it is.
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Posted 22 October 2025 - 05:08 PM

That really sucks.

One of the saddest things to me about everything that’s happened since Trump came around is seeing how many people I’ve grown up respecting or loved are either straight freaking morons, hateful, or really don’t actually care about anyone if you aren’t a straight white Christian.

Beats the shit out of my mental health.
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Posted 22 October 2025 - 05:31 PM

View PostSlow Ben, on 22 October 2025 - 05:08 PM, said:

That really sucks.

One of the saddest things to me about everything that’s happened since Trump came around is seeing how many people I’ve grown up respecting or loved are either straight freaking morons, hateful, or really don’t actually care about anyone if you aren’t a straight white Christian.

Beats the shit out of my mental health.


Yeah, for sure. That's me as well. It just does my head in...
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#31184 User is offline   Tiste Simeon 

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Posted 22 October 2025 - 05:49 PM

I don't think there's anything you can say QT. I think these people are too far gone.
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Posted 22 October 2025 - 06:06 PM

Yeah, that's the truth.
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#31186 User is offline   worry 

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Posted 22 October 2025 - 06:28 PM

Does he know that the US is a different country than the one he lives in?
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Posted 22 October 2025 - 06:44 PM

View Postworry, on 22 October 2025 - 06:28 PM, said:

Does he know that the US is a different country than the one he lives in?


You would think so...but no.
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Posted 23 October 2025 - 08:25 AM

View PostTiste Simeon, on 22 October 2025 - 05:49 PM, said:

I don't think there's anything you can say QT. I think these people are too far gone.


I agree, though it's still horrible to see it when it's someone you knew to be so different from that.

I worry about just how many people are too far gone at this point.
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#31189 User is offline   Tiste Simeon 

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Posted 23 October 2025 - 09:49 AM

View PostTheRetiredBridgeburner, on 23 October 2025 - 08:25 AM, said:

View PostTiste Simeon, on 22 October 2025 - 05:49 PM, said:

I don't think there's anything you can say QT. I think these people are too far gone.


I agree, though it's still horrible to see it when it's someone you knew to be so different from that.

I worry about just how many people are too far gone at this point.

I expect if we could remove the internet from a huge number of people for about 6 months we could probably help them all back to some level of sanity but I'm not sure how else it could happen.
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Posted 08 November 2025 - 11:48 PM

Another colleague of mine lost his job this week. Just another moment of stress and anxiety I don’t need. Worse for him of course. Essentially another victim of RFK and Trump, the negative pressure the government is putting on biotech is particularly harsh on a few sectors. The company essentially decided we can’t support that sector in the USA, making him redundant. It’s doing well in Canada, and Europe. America is literally losing billions because of this nonsense.

Also sometimes I hate America. Overseas he would have protection or some warning. In America the moment profit is threatened companies can just cut employees to cover the loss. Also I really don’t like what happened. He had a customer meeting out of his home city on Wednesday, and they fired him Thursday. Which means they timed it to not stop the meeting from going forward…

Also I’m looking into how to donate to food backs because the USA is such a fucking mess right now.
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Posted 09 November 2025 - 05:16 PM

I have a perfectly good tempur queen size matress, 2 years old. Only reason I am getting rid of it is that it was too soft and I sank into it like a stone. I thought great, lets doante it. Its impossible. Due to fear of bed bugs no major charity will accept it.
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Posted 09 November 2025 - 05:37 PM

View PostCause, on 09 November 2025 - 05:16 PM, said:

I have a perfectly good tempur queen size matress, 2 years old. Only reason I am getting rid of it is that it was too soft and I sank into it like a stone. I thought great, lets doante it. Its impossible. Due to fear of bed bugs no major charity will accept it.


Is there really no cost-effective way to inspect it for bedbugs? Or sterilize it relative to potential bedbug infestation?

Perhaps you could make a "direct donation" to someone, maybe over something like Craigslist... granted, then you don't know whether the person you're donating it to is actually in need of charity, but I doubt most charity organizations really check for that either for things like this.

When I moved I discovered some lighter fluid and an old lighter (fancy one that kept the fluid inside from evaporating) that I'd like to get rid of but the only way to legally throw it away is at one of the "hazardous waste disposal" events that happen less than once a month---last one for this year already happened. So I saw people on Reddit saying I should just offer it to random homeless people. But is it really charity if I'm helping them do something that harms their health, and potentially encouraging a debilitating addiction that will make it even harder for them to secure stable housing?... OTOH I don't want to die in a fire, and my new apartment has hardware floors that I thoroughly detest---the better to shatter my smartphone screens and erupt in flames beneath my bare feet as I try to race to the door, brandishing my fire extinguisher and sprinting through the mildly toxic yellow dust it spews...

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#31193 User is offline   HoosierDaddy 

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Posted 09 November 2025 - 11:57 PM

Flew from Tampa to Indy yesterday.

Woo boy.

That is a 12 hour drive.

Should have driven.

17 hours in the airport. Grateful we made it home at all.
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Posted 10 November 2025 - 04:03 AM

Good lord!
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Posted 10 November 2025 - 10:53 AM

View PostHoosierDaddy, on 09 November 2025 - 11:57 PM, said:

Flew from Tampa to Indy yesterday.

Woo boy.

That is a 12 hour drive.

Should have driven.

17 hours in the airport. Grateful we made it home at all.


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Posted 10 November 2025 - 08:14 PM

View PostTsundoku, on 10 November 2025 - 10:53 AM, said:

View PostHoosierDaddy, on 09 November 2025 - 11:57 PM, said:

Flew from Tampa to Indy yesterday.

Woo boy.

That is a 12 hour drive.

Should have driven.

17 hours in the airport. Grateful we made it home at all.


Why were you in Tampa?

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#31197 User is offline   HoosierDaddy 

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Posted 11 November 2025 - 01:58 AM

View Postamphibian, on 10 November 2025 - 08:14 PM, said:

View PostTsundoku, on 10 November 2025 - 10:53 AM, said:

View PostHoosierDaddy, on 09 November 2025 - 11:57 PM, said:

Flew from Tampa to Indy yesterday.

Woo boy.

That is a 12 hour drive.

Should have driven.

17 hours in the airport. Grateful we made it home at all.


Why were you in Tampa?

Testing Tampa proof packaging.


Was on a cruise with the wife and in-laws out of Tampa. Visited Mexico, Belize, and Honduras.

Lessons were learned.
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Posted 11 November 2025 - 02:12 PM

View PostHoosierDaddy, on 11 November 2025 - 01:58 AM, said:

Was on a cruise with the wife and in-laws out of Tampa. Visited Mexico, Belize, and Honduras.

Lessons were learned.


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Posted 12 November 2025 - 02:42 PM

View PostHoosierDaddy, on 11 November 2025 - 01:58 AM, said:

View Postamphibian, on 10 November 2025 - 08:14 PM, said:

View PostTsundoku, on 10 November 2025 - 10:53 AM, said:

View PostHoosierDaddy, on 09 November 2025 - 11:57 PM, said:

Flew from Tampa to Indy yesterday.

Woo boy.

That is a 12 hour drive.

Should have driven.

17 hours in the airport. Grateful we made it home at all.


Why were you in Tampa?

Testing Tampa proof packaging.


Was on a cruise with the wife and in-laws out of Tampa. Visited Mexico, Belize, and Honduras.

Lessons were learned.


Harsh lessons, life lessons, or drinking lessons?
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Posted 19 November 2025 - 12:20 AM

Well I am unemployed again. Still trying to process it. I am honestly not sure what happened. We have been undergoing several firings all year for restructurings and layoffs due to reduced revenue but I dont seem to be have been let go for this reason. I was fired supposedly for being unprepared but wasnt given a specific example, and also my manager mentioned being distracted in meetings occasionally (probably true at times but I think thats true for everyone). one of the examples she gave was when I spent a meeting looking at flights to travel home because my grandmother had died that morning, I came to the meeting because I was scared to be late but explained what happened. This example is from July 2024 and even as she gave it she said she understood.

I have no proof but I have a suspicion given the timing that it may have something to do with the fact that I have been covering for a colleague who has been on maternity leave and it probably put me given our slower revenue at at least 1.5 peoples work if not quite a full 2 (thought the difficulty and stress of covering less familiar work was hard, especially when so much of the isntitional knowledge had been fired). Still we had discussed adding the new instruments and territory to my commission but they gave me far less than the person I was covering would have received. I asked if it was a mistake on a monday, received the negative feedback Friday, did an important install the next week and was fired this Monday. So 2 weeks between mentioning the commission and being fired, and 1 week between the feedback and being fired so no chance to act on it. Which makes me believe the decision was already made, they either waited for me to finish the important install or maybe tried to create some paper trail.

I am trying to be introspective but I feel if my performance was dropping that my manager should have/would have stepped in sooner to correct it. I dont think I am so delusional that I would have missed obvious failures in my performance. After discussing the commission I may have pushed back too hard on trying to set some boundaries and pushed back on dealing with some emergencies that popped up what was otherwise the only week I would have been home the whole of November and so which I used I to schedule several medical appointments, podiatrist, dentist, doctor, vaccine before the year ended and I lost my funds. I was expecting December to be equally busy. I was working remote and available for most of the day for emails and customer support but wanted to avoid traveling that week. I was a team player, pulled my weight, and had never received negative feedback before. I asked about performance review with my manager at the end of 2024 but was told we don't do them.

As I said, still processing it. I am secure financially and trying to take some time for myself before hitting the job search to calm myself and relax but am worried about the US economy right now. Late novemeber and decemeber between thanksgiving and christmass is probably not a good time to be searching but jan-march is prime time. A layoff would also be easier to brush off but being fired for performance apparently hurts worse.
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