[QuickTidal]

Tiste Simeon, on 06 August 2025 - 06:07 PM, said:

Sounds like the ball in his court now QT. You owned up to your mistake and tried to make it good and he acted like a petulant child about it. I wouldn't try to go after him or further explain yourself now. That would just further solidify the awkwardness and not help the situation. Some people are like that. Fwiw while the original intent was likely genuine, and he possibly was a bit hurt by your reaction, the way he has dealt with it since kind of justifies how you dealt with it at the time.

I agree. I don't interact with him now other than for work, or saying hi in the hallways. But I was curious if anyone felt I missed anything that would result in him being like this half a year later.

thanks man.

[Tiste Simeon]

Yeah I don't think so. Admittedly your initial response was not great and I can understand someone getting a bit put out by it. But a normal grown up would get over it even without you then owning it, apologising and trying to make amends.

Some people like to be the victim is all I can think of.