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Necromancer Extraordinaire
39 years old
January 1, 1983
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  1. What's bringing the bittersweet?

    03 September 2021 - 12:36 PM

    A thread for those moments, events, days, etc that are nether completely messing with one's groove nor completely making you happy.


    First time having my wife sleeping in bed with me (not working) in about 7 days, but still holding her down as she thrashed through nightmares.
  2. What is sex?

    15 August 2021 - 03:54 PM

    ::NOTE TO MODS: If after the reading the OP, you feel this is not appropriate, please feel free to delete this entire thread. I genuinely am working through the topic logically in my head, and as always, wanted input from other experiences knowing that I don't even begin to comprehend the diversity of opinion. If it helps, the below should read as if Sheldon Cooper from Big Bang Theory is writing the OP.::

    So I am now working though what is for me a new revelation, namely that when one is discussing sex, they don't always mean activity between two people that produces mutual orgasms.

    Apparently the simple term "sex" can mean a host of divergent scenarios to people that encompasses a variety of actions. From what I gather, to some people, sex can solely mean a procreative act between male and female, excluding other penetrative acts. And then on the opposite end of the spectrum sex can be difined as anything leading to orgasm such as "phone sex" where no physical or visual contact between persons is required.

    I know this is an awkward topic, which is why I bring it up with dry language and logical/scientific overtones, at least for the OP. I consider this thread more of a straw poll to help me understand the scope and diversity of how people think about the sexual aspect of relationships.

    For me, up to very recently, I considered sex as anything between two or more people that intentionally led to orgasm in one or both/all of the participants. Even though I am aware of the difference between sex and love, I was raised to believe sex was a special activity reserved for the object of one's love, or, if one did not have a committed relationship, sex was a needed release allowable in lieu of any commitments (friends with benefits, prostitutes, etc). The definition of affair was sex with someone other than one's current committed love partner(s).

    The new paradigm that has challenged me is that sex, like any other activity, is not always (nor even commonly) a morally exclusive activity between a pair/group of committed partners. To put it crudely, married people can have a committed and sound relationship with fuck-buddies on the side.

    Moreover, not everyone considers "sex" to include things like mutual masturbation or oral sex. In other words, there are people who would not consider giving a hand job to another party outside a committed relationship as cheating or an affair (mind blown).

    So what is all your thoughts and experiences?

    Side note: For those who know me, or even extrapolated from my posts in other threads, my new discussion above is not in response to discovering my wife is cheating or having an affair or in response to myself cheating or having an affair. It arose in context of my wife feeling love simultaneously for me and a workmate, which is another conversation altogether. Ironically, I have little to no issue with someone loving/having-romantically-attraction-towards multiple people. To me, it all comes down to communication, openness, honesty, and ultimately, actions associated with one's feelings.


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    16 Jul 2022 - 14:57
    Where you at Gusty?
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    31 Dec 2021 - 16:23
    that time again, best wishes for 2022 mate
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    31 Dec 2020 - 14:34
    and again
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    31 Dec 2019 - 14:45
    Another year down. And up. So to speak. Hope yours was a good one, and this one is even better. Happy fake birthday Gusty mate
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    Gust Hubb 

    03 Jan 2019 - 22:18
    Thanks man.
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    01 Jan 2019 - 06:39
    Happy birthday Dr Hubb.
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    03 Sep 2016 - 17:07
    Yebo baba, life has changed a lot but I still have a habit of checking this forum and reading some posts that seem interesting. How are you?
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    13 Oct 2014 - 04:39
    The weird thing is I lurk everyday <>_<> Always here. Always watching. Silent... silent...
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    03 Mar 2014 - 08:34
    There's been a couple of negs, but I'm mainly just agreeing with you and a couple of the others. NFI who Okai is, probably just someone's alt.
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    14 Apr 2013 - 04:19
    Word up fellow need from across the pond!! It's been a while since I checked in. Thought I'd say hi!!!!
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    Mrs Savagely Wishy Washy 

    04 Mar 2013 - 06:53
    corv=corvus=white crow=silchas ruin. i'm on to you.
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    11 Dec 2012 - 05:01
    Who am I? I am a host of forgotten tomes, lying in tombs. Lyrics lacking cadence, stomping feet with nary a rumble.
    I am the one.
    I am the Archivist and my words shall live forever. This is not a blessing. It is a curse eternal.
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    14 Jul 2012 - 12:06
    My presence will get better my feathered friend i assure you. I have had no internet access recently. In other news the questions are up but i accidentally put them in the wrong forum. Im gonna redo it when i get in so its in the gotm forum and jiggle it round a bit. I hope mrs gh and the barbossa are well
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