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Necromancer Extraordinaire
Age:
38 years old
Birthday:
January 1, 1983
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Northern Hemisphere
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Glass slides with entrapped bits of colored tissue

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  1. In Topic: What's messing with your groove?

    22 October 2021 - 12:24 PM

    View PostQuickTidal, on 22 October 2021 - 02:25 AM, said:

    My mom has stage 3 pancreatic cancer. They've given her a year to live.

    I'm a fucking wreck. I don't want my mom to die. :(



    That is awful. So sorry man.
  2. In Topic: What's messing with your groove?

    07 October 2021 - 09:38 PM

    View PostQuickTidal, on 07 October 2021 - 02:27 PM, said:

    View Postamphibian, on 06 October 2021 - 11:27 PM, said:

    View PostQuickTidal, on 05 October 2021 - 05:43 PM, said:

    That's quite a situation. I'm glad she's getting some help form your State with the 3x a week. Make sure you vet the agencies for the direct home care (If you've not done so already) as some of them can be kinda sketchy to their PSWs. But yes that will help a lot once that starts. Here's hoping things get better soon. I have firsthand account of this sort of care through my wife and her dad as they looked after my MIL, and it can be very stressful on the caregivers. The dinner thing sounds like it's a huge headache you don't need.

    I really appreciate your compassion here and I very much wish you and yours the best as the long family struggle (process?) goes on.

    Thank you.


    No worries at all.

    Yeah, we got past the death but now we are dealing with the fallout of discovering in the Autopsy that the degenerative neuro afflictionshe had is genetic, and atosomnal dominant meaning that my genes don't water it down or prevent the possibility of my kids getting it, let alone my wife, her siblings and her cousins.

    It's been a shitty few days dealing with that.


    Super shitty. I am so sorry man. Autosomal dominant stuff really sucks. If you don't mind me asking, what is the name of the disease?
  3. In Topic: Whats making you happy right now

    18 September 2021 - 04:16 PM

    Actually had a really good, like the early-days, day yesterday with my wife. We went out for lunch, macarons, soaps, and general shopping. It just felt like how it used to.
  4. In Topic: What's bringing the bittersweet?

    16 September 2021 - 09:15 PM

    First couple's counseling session today. Mostly setting the stage for future conversations by getting the overall picture of what we are getting counseling for and our respective histories. It is going to take a whole other session to get past the mere highlights of our history, especially with so many huge topics only slightly touched upon. She was crying on and off through most of it, understandable in part because of all the people in her life (like her 3 month old daughter) who have died.

    We seem to have a good counselor and I am encouraged by having a something in motion for maybe repairing our relationship. There was a telling moment during the session where the counselor compared a past stressful job I had where I was quickly burning out to the current stressors of her job, and asking her if it felt like a similar situation. She did acknowledge the similarities, which was nice.

    So now, another session next week, and hopefully this will begin to untangle things enough to keep us going or help me find out if things cannot be salvaged.
  5. In Topic: What's bringing the bittersweet?

    13 September 2021 - 01:26 AM

    It was a good and promising weekend. Picked apples with the wife and step-daughters, fell asleep on the couch reading books together with the wife, played a GERP with the sister and her friends, the wife was home two nights in a row and even cooked a dinner for the first time in a long time.

    And then, this evening, while watching the first episode of Post-Mortem, a scene where the main character almost gets cremated triggered memories in my wife and she ran. I don't know where she drove off to, though I suspect she is visiting one of her work friends for comfort I am obviously unable to give. I think one of the worst parts was her seeing the hurt and "don't leave" in my eyes, and still rushing out that door. So the memories of this weekend are now hazed out a bit as I sit at home alone.

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    Tsundoku 

    31 Dec 2020 - 14:34
    and again
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    Tsundoku 

    31 Dec 2019 - 14:45
    Another year down. And up. So to speak. Hope yours was a good one, and this one is even better. Happy fake birthday Gusty mate
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    Gust Hubb 

    03 Jan 2019 - 22:18
    Thanks man.
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    Tsundoku 

    01 Jan 2019 - 06:39
    Happy birthday Dr Hubb.
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    wade 

    03 Sep 2016 - 17:07
    Yebo baba, life has changed a lot but I still have a habit of checking this forum and reading some posts that seem interesting. How are you?
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    wade 

    13 Oct 2014 - 04:39
    The weird thing is I lurk everyday <>_<> Always here. Always watching. Silent... silent...
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    Tsundoku 

    03 Mar 2014 - 08:34
    There's been a couple of negs, but I'm mainly just agreeing with you and a couple of the others. NFI who Okai is, probably just someone's alt.
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    Cyphon 

    10 Nov 2013 - 15:43
    *poke*
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    Solidsnape 

    14 Apr 2013 - 04:20
    Nerd*
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    Solidsnape 

    14 Apr 2013 - 04:19
    Word up fellow need from across the pond!! It's been a while since I checked in. Thought I'd say hi!!!!
    HI!
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    Mrs Savagely Wishy Washy 

    04 Mar 2013 - 06:53
    corv=corvus=white crow=silchas ruin. i'm on to you.
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    Guest 

    11 Dec 2012 - 05:01
    Who am I? I am a host of forgotten tomes, lying in tombs. Lyrics lacking cadence, stomping feet with nary a rumble.
    I am the one.
    I am the Archivist and my words shall live forever. This is not a blessing. It is a curse eternal.
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    tiam 

    14 Jul 2012 - 12:06
    My presence will get better my feathered friend i assure you. I have had no internet access recently. In other news the questions are up but i accidentally put them in the wrong forum. Im gonna redo it when i get in so its in the gotm forum and jiggle it round a bit. I hope mrs gh and the barbossa are well
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    HiddenOne 

    03 May 2012 - 22:24
    My first neg rep, I thought I was gonna have to start a war of retribution
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    tiam 

    14 Apr 2012 - 00:22
    Its 1.20 am here and I have work tomorrow. Another time my feathered friend
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