Ain, on 27 June 2011 - 09:12 AM, said:
Fun.
I have actually BEEN in a very similar situation...and I was totally your age at the time! LOL!
Here's what happened. Girl #1 (sexy burnette) is sitting on a swing in the park by my house. My friend thinks she's hot and so we walk up to her and he starts chatting her up. I just patiently sit and look at my feet occasionally waiting for him to pick her up. a Bit later he gets her phone number, and off we go. He talks about her all the way to his place and we sit in his room chatting about it. I mention, if he gets together with her he should see if she's got a friend for me. He calls a day or so later and sets up a joint hang out at the mall, and she's bringing her friend (Girl #2). So we trundle off to the mall and meet up with them. Girl #2 is sexy blonde with legs that go all the way up. I'm impressed and think, okay great a girl for me too! My friend goes to the washroom and Girl #1 takes the opportunity to take me aside to the mall doors for a chat. I naturally think I am going to get the "My friend likes you" or "my friend doesn't like you" chat. Instead Girl #1 (who I didn't pay too much attention to because my friend liked her other than noticing her general hotness) says to me (with a deadpan face) "Don't you like me?". Taken COMPLETELY aback I kind of stare at her and think...wtf?!....but I say, "I hadn't really thought about it" and she leans up kisses my neck and says "Why don't you think about it." and then winks and walks off back to the food court. At which point I decide the best thing to do is tell my buddy what happened (in private of course), and tell him he ought to go for the sexy blonde instead. He doesn't like it and when they both come back to hang out at his pool house he's grumpy the whole time. Partially because Girl #2 is paying him no attention either. It turns out Girl # 2 is pissed cause she thought she was going to be hanging out with me...and doesn't like my buddy as a second prospect...so after they go home he has a bit of a shit on me and I say it's not my fault ect. ect. I tell him Girl #2 might warm up to things in a few days. What does he do? he convinces Girl #2 to go after me anyways and snake me away from Girl #1 (who I went on one date with at that point)...which she does by calling me and telling me Girl #1 doesn't want to see me anymore but was too shy to call me herself. Girl #2 then comes over to comfort me and we make out...Thinking he was going to get Girl #1 after that was a mistake on my friends' part as she wanted nothing to do with him and told him she never did...and then Girl #1 finds out that I've been messing around with Girl #2 and freaks out....doesn't believe me when I tell her the story Girl #2 told me...and off she goes.
Long story short...is...if Girl with Army boyfriend likes you enough, she might do ANYTHING to make sure you don't get Girl #2....I say you just go for Girl #2...she's the one you like and this other girl is already involved. Go with your gut.
As an epilogue to my story. Years later I've not seen or heard of Girl #1, but Girl #2 was so extraordinarily hot and seductive that I succumbed to her twice more (whilst dating other people and ending those relationships)...and to this day she is hotter than the sun, and still my friend...but I know she's bad news in the relationship dept. as she's all about the game.