[King Lear]

Bubba, on 12 November 2010 - 01:11 PM, said:

Crone, on 12 November 2010 - 08:51 AM, said:

Spilling red wine on my brand-new pillowcase. I don't know what upsets me most, the pillowcase ruination or the waste of wine

or why your drinking wine in bed.....

What's wrong with that?

Messing with my groove is my utter inability to get to sleep before 2am. I can't remember how to relax. I spend all my free time trying to figure out what the hell I'm supposed to be doing instead. This is ridiculous.

[Soulessdreamer]

My X box just went red ring of death and all as I was running down the last quests in New Vegas.

TTFN

[Macros]

Bwahahahahahahahaha!

[Grimjust Bearegular]

Mentalist, on 20 November 2010 - 11:30 PM, said:

As winter'll set in in mmore and more places, we'll be hearing much more whinging, i'm sure.

I bet

Slow Ben, on 21 November 2010 - 02:01 AM, said:

Grimilla Insultface, on 20 November 2010 - 11:26 PM, said:

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But it could just be a rough patch. I should perhaps give it some time before I do anything stupid and rash. Or maybe I'm just being overly-dramatic and sensitive?

If you've been together 3 years it sounds like your in the "the rut". If you want it to work with this guy you'd better ass kick yourselves out of it or you'll stay mired in it till there's no getting out.

Yes, that comes from personal experience.


edit: drunkeness and spelling dont mix well.

We've been together 7 years, actually and we've been headed for "rut"-territory a couple of times already, but always managed to get out of it. But this time feels different. I feel different, and it sucks.

All those little things are really starting to get to me and I just feel so damn tired....of everything.

Well, colour me emo...this hast to be enough whining to last me a decade


How did it end/ turn out for you, SB?

[Slow Ben]

We decided to take a break. Aaaand that was 9 years ago.

Which brings me to another point.

Breaks are haaaaard to make work.

[Grimjust Bearegular]

Slow Ben, on 21 November 2010 - 03:52 PM, said:

We decided to take a break. Aaaand that was 9 years ago.

Which brings me to another point.

Breaks are haaaaard to make work.

Ah, I see....

[Ulrik]

I have to write two reviews today (21:30 here) and Im sooooooooooooooooooo sleeeeepy.....

[Ulrik]

Soulessdreamer, on 21 November 2010 - 12:02 PM, said:

My X box just went red ring of death and all as I was running down the last quests in New Vegas.

TTFN

Condolences...

[amphibian]

Grimilla Insultface, on 20 November 2010 - 11:26 PM, said:

This messes with my groove: Hungover like a bastard. Christmas party with my bf's company, drank unknown number units of alkohol, but didn't do anything stupid...that I remember,


Recently I've been plagued with restlessness and nagging doubts....Found out at said Christmas party that my bf never mentions me at work, and some of his collegues seemed surprised he even had a girlfriend. This isn't a big deal in or of itslef, but it's a straw on an otherwise large pile on the poor camel's back. To boot, we haven't been on a vacation together in over three years, we were supposed to go to the US next year but that's been put on hold indefintely, and he couldn't even bother to make time in his plans to go to an Iron Maiden concert with me in July, 2011. I sometimes feel like my whole life is on hold, until he has the time to do something. I want to travel, to meet new people and experience new things. I'm too old to just sit around and wait for ,,,,for things to happen.....I seem to be more annoyed than happy these days. Confused and frustrated.

But it could just be a rough patch. I should perhaps give it some time before I do anything stupid and rash. Or maybe I'm just being overly-dramatic and sensitive?

Some people - read that as "me" - are very closemouthed about their personal lives at work or in professional environments. There's some overlap between public and private lives for sure, but for the vast majority of people at work or school, it's none of their beeswax who I'm seeing and certainly none of mine regarding who they're seeing. I find this to be an attitude held by a good number of men and not so high a percentage amongst women.

That might account for some co-workers not knowing about you.

As for the rest, I dunno. Talk to him. Explain what you're feeling in a manner that doesn't slide into him perceiving it as "Why are you such an asshole?". Really make an effort not to give off that impression - even though you don't intend to, it's his impressions of what you are saying that will help or hurt the discussion.

[Adjutant Stormy~]

My friend, (who was supposed to crash at my place last night, after huge reunion chillage) kept me up until 7AM, at which point he says 'welp, time for me to head home!'

[Puck]

I've dreamed so much for me personally horrible nonsense the last couple of nights I'm keeping doing anything to not go to sleep today. Accordingly, I'm little more than a walking zombie at the moment.

[Mentalist]

Crap.
Stopped by a friend's rez after work to grab a drink and relax. largely because I left my alcohol at her place Friday night. Ended up chilling there for about 3.5 hours. can't really complain, but there's so much work I still have to do. major time management fail, gonna have to stay up till at least 3 AM tonight....

[Ain't_It_Just_]

Football training, normally a good thing. But the weather will turn me into broiled teenager. Oh noes.

[Gothos]

It's been either cloudy or raining here for the past two full fucking weeks. Sigh.

Also, now losing feeling in another finger on my left palm. The numbness is expanding. I'm having trouble grabbing and lifting objects - like most of my strength in that hand is gone.
I'm so going to see a neurologist about this.

[Ulrik]

Again.... Someone want to know what Im doing and in response says "Hm, I should chose my job better..." Once again and I will hit him, no matter who it is! In Czech Republic you probably have to apologize for doing something you actually like.

Grrrr....

[Ulrik]

Gothos, on 22 November 2010 - 07:10 AM, said:

It's been either cloudy or raining here for the past two full fucking weeks. Sigh.

Also, now losing feeling in another finger on my left palm. The numbness is expanding. I'm having trouble grabbing and lifting objects - like most of my strength in that hand is gone.
I'm so going to see a neurologist about this.

Damn, good luck... I hope the neurologist will find (and solve) the problem.

[Grimjust Bearegular]

amphibian, on 21 November 2010 - 08:33 PM, said:

Grimilla Insultface, on 20 November 2010 - 11:26 PM, said:

This messes with my groove: Hungover like a bastard. Christmas party with my bf's company, drank unknown number units of alkohol, but didn't do anything stupid...that I remember,


Recently I've been plagued with restlessness and nagging doubts....Found out at said Christmas party that my bf never mentions me at work, and some of his collegues seemed surprised he even had a girlfriend. This isn't a big deal in or of itslef, but it's a straw on an otherwise large pile on the poor camel's back. To boot, we haven't been on a vacation together in over three years, we were supposed to go to the US next year but that's been put on hold indefintely, and he couldn't even bother to make time in his plans to go to an Iron Maiden concert with me in July, 2011. I sometimes feel like my whole life is on hold, until he has the time to do something. I want to travel, to meet new people and experience new things. I'm too old to just sit around and wait for ,,,,for things to happen.....I seem to be more annoyed than happy these days. Confused and frustrated.

But it could just be a rough patch. I should perhaps give it some time before I do anything stupid and rash. Or maybe I'm just being overly-dramatic and sensitive?

Some people - read that as "me" - are very closemouthed about their personal lives at work or in professional environments. There's some overlap between public and private lives for sure, but for the vast majority of people at work or school, it's none of their beeswax who I'm seeing and certainly none of mine regarding who they're seeing. I find this to be an attitude held by a good number of men and not so high a percentage amongst women.

That might account for some co-workers not knowing about you.

As for the rest, I dunno. Talk to him. Explain what you're feeling in a manner that doesn't slide into him perceiving it as "Why are you such an asshole?". Really make an effort not to give off that impression - even though you don't intend to, it's his impressions of what you are saying that will help or hurt the discussion.

We've been together for 7 years, lived together for 4, that should at least earn me a mention. I just don't understand why he doesn't talk about me all the time?
I am awesome.




But you do make some excellent points. Thanks for giving me a different perspective on things

Puck, on 21 November 2010 - 10:47 PM, said:

I've dreamed so much for me personally horrible nonsense the last couple of nights I'm keeping doing anything to not go to sleep today. Accordingly, I'm little more than a walking zombie at the moment.

I can tell...

[stone monkey]

Big meeting tomorrow morning at work where I guess we'll find out if Smiling Dave Cameron and his cronies are about to make us unemployed. Judging by what I've managed to pick up by inference and body language from those already in the know, it's not going to be the best news we've ever had. Deeply nervous. Sleeping tonight will be fun. This has the potential to completely ruin my life.

[Mentalist]

ugh. Monday

I hate Mondays.

5 hours of class, foolowed by an indoor game (great in itself, but oh, the exhaustion), followed by an evening shift at work. with about an hour's worth of break in between.

add an impending exam on Wednesday to the mix....and you may see why i'm not all that happy.

[Centzon Totochtin]

Geez SM, I hope it all goes okay for you tomorrow then!

I am trying to pack my suitcase to make it weigh under 20kgs.... so far unsuccessfully.