Slow Ben, on 27 June 2011 - 01:57 PM, said:
Ain, on 27 June 2011 - 09:12 AM, said:
Friend of mine and her Army boyfriend want to stay at mine after my 18th. No real bones about it, but there is an interesting little triangle at work. You see, there's this OTHER girl staying over that I quite like, but first girl seems to think I like her more than a friend. And she doesnt seem to like it, as she is taking steps to try and divide us. So if I allow it we are going to have an awks situation where if I try and talk to second girl, first girl will get pissy about it. AND on top of that people are complaining I live too far away. I've given them a month to plan ahead, what's their problem?
Fun.
You have way to much f'ing drama in your life for a 17? year old Just.
Seriously son.
Most of it isn't mine....it follows me home. Mind you, when you're all of 17 years you think one break-up is the slippery slope....wink wink
QuickTidal, on 27 June 2011 - 02:44 PM, said:
Ain, on 27 June 2011 - 09:12 AM, said:
Friend of mine and her Army boyfriend want to stay at mine after my 18th. No real bones about it, but there is an interesting little triangle at work. You see, there's this OTHER girl staying over that I quite like, but first girl seems to think I like her more than a friend. And she doesnt seem to like it, as she is taking steps to try and divide us. So if I allow it we are going to have an awks situation where if I try and talk to second girl, first girl will get pissy about it. AND on top of that people are complaining I live too far away. I've given them a month to plan ahead, what's their problem?
Fun.
I have actually BEEN in a very similar situation...and I was totally your age at the time! LOL!
Here's what happened. Girl #1 (sexy burnette) is sitting on a swing in the park by my house. My friend thinks she's hot and so we walk up to her and he starts chatting her up. I just patiently sit and look at my feet occasionally waiting for him to pick her up. a Bit later he gets her phone number, and off we go. He talks about her all the way to his place and we sit in his room chatting about it. I mention, if he gets together with her he should see if she's got a friend for me. He calls a day or so later and sets up a joint hang out at the mall, and she's bringing her friend (Girl #2). So we trundle off to the mall and meet up with them. Girl #2 is sexy blonde with legs that go all the way up. I'm impressed and think, okay great a girl for me too! My friend goes to the washroom and Girl #1 takes the opportunity to take me aside to the mall doors for a chat. I naturally think I am going to get the "My friend likes you" or "my friend doesn't like you" chat. Instead Girl #1 (who I didn't pay too much attention to because my friend liked her other than noticing her general hotness) says to me (with a deadpan face) "Don't you like me?". Taken COMPLETELY aback I kind of stare at her and think...wtf?!....but I say, "I hadn't really thought about it" and she leans up kisses my neck and says "Why don't you think about it." and then winks and walks off back to the food court. At which point I decide the best thing to do is tell my buddy what happened (in private of course), and tell him he ought to go for the sexy blonde instead. He doesn't like it and when they both come back to hang out at his pool house he's grumpy the whole time. Partially because Girl #2 is paying him no attention either. It turns out Girl # 2 is pissed cause she thought she was going to be hanging out with me...and doesn't like my buddy as a second prospect...so after they go home he has a bit of a shit on me and I say it's not my fault ect. ect. I tell him Girl #2 might warm up to things in a few days. What does he do? he convinces Girl #2 to go after me anyways and snake me away from Girl #1 (who I went on one date with at that point)...which she does by calling me and telling me Girl #1 doesn't want to see me anymore but was too shy to call me herself. Girl #2 then comes over to comfort me and we make out...Thinking he was going to get Girl #1 after that was a mistake on my friends' part as she wanted nothing to do with him and told him she never did...and then Girl #1 finds out that I've been messing around with Girl #2 and freaks out....doesn't believe me when I tell her the story Girl #2 told me...and off she goes.
Long story short...is...if Girl with Army boyfriend likes you enough, she might do ANYTHING to make sure you don't get Girl #2....I say you just go for Girl #2...she's the one you like and this other girl is already involved. Go with your gut.
As an epilogue to my story. Years later I've not seen or heard of Girl #1, but Girl #2 was so extraordinarily hot and seductive that I succumbed to her twice more (whilst dating other people and ending those relationships)...and to this day she is hotter than the sun, and still my friend...but I know she's bad news in the relationship dept. as she's all about the game.
Ouch-EE. What a clusterfuck.

But at any rate, me and Girl #2 are just friends, so it should be ok. Also, both girls are good friends....so yeah.
HoosierDaddy, on 28 June 2011 - 06:48 AM, said:
I wish I was a teenager and had bullshit drama. The end of the world is not nigh, despite what you think. Be happy, do what is fun and not responsible.
Not odd for life-partner to become your best friend, Amph. Not at first, but, certainly not out of the ordinary for long-terms.
Messing with my groove: I feel old. You fucking kids. If it hadn't of been for you I would have gotten away with it!
Oh poor old Hoosier, so sorry to have burdened your sweet heart.

I suppose I will be looking back one day and thinking the same thing.
DISCLAIMER: I apologise for the general bittersweet nostalgia my words have evoked. Oopsie-daisy.