Binder of Demons, on 01 May 2011 - 08:43 PM, said:
I've decided to quit my PhD as it was making me a very depressed person.
Wowser! Big decision!! Well done on making the call. I came
very close to quitting mine during the writing up stage. I was hideously depressed in a way that 5 years on (and my whole life before) I've never come close to. I decided against quitting since I'd done the real leg work and just had to get over my personal demons to finish it up. My current boss wishes he did one but he's got plenty of career options without it. One of my best friends had a really shit time of his PhD. He got reeeeeeally depressed about it and eventually just stopped doing the work in his final year (without officially quitting) and got a job. Five years on, he still hasn't officially quit (he was based in Maynooth) and he occasionally says he's going to write it up. His work is out of date now and he'll have loads of trouble passing. He knows this but he can't find the courage to just admit that it's over and he's better off without it.
Seriously, well done on drawing that line in the sand. I'm sure you've sought advice from others but just make sure you've acknowledged that the 2nd/3rd year stage is reeeeeeally tough (I dunno where you're up to but random internet advice has the benefit of ignoring those facts

). A PhD is very isolated so it's prone to depression. I think there are huge benefits to sticking it out but there are definitely mega benefits for choosing the right time to exit. It's not the be-all and end-all. My friend who quasi-quit has a great life with a new son and an interesting job and if only he'd admit that it's over, he'd be free of that phd ghost and loads happier. When I was thinking of quitting, a postdoc in our lab pointed out that I was having such trouble deciding because the type of people who start PhDs aren't quitters, they're grafters who stick things out no matter what. Acknowledging that something isn't right for that type of person is very difficult. So well done for choosing what's right for you and don't regret it!
\disclaimer: I'm drunk. This is supposed to sound motivational but it might be a garbled rant.