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Mausetöter
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  1. In Topic: What's messing with your groove?

    18 September 2023 - 10:45 PM

    View Postamphibian, on 17 September 2023 - 07:58 PM, said:

    View PostPuck, on 17 September 2023 - 09:44 AM, said:

    So, how does one find new friends at 34 when one has found that what one thought of as friends aren't?It's fine, people change (or not, that being the issue here). But it's depressing.
    If you have hobbies or professional related pursuits that bring you outside to be around people doing the same thing, go do them and talk to people. If that's not something you've done or are doing, sign up for co-ed sports teams and talk to people there.


    Thank you, amph, you always have level headed advice and I appreciate you for that!

    I'm not into sports that include other but I should probably look into some other activities. I will definitely be going to shows again as soon as I can (I'm dealing with a somewhat fresh still heel spur atm, fun times). I'm fortunately to have amazing colleagues which helps with getting some social interaction and not despairing completely but we do not share interests. At the very least I know through them I am not completely socially inept and am fun to be around. Helps my self-esteem.


    View Postamphibian, on 17 September 2023 - 11:00 PM, said:

    I left out a whole part about how it stinks to have to make that distance with ex friends. Be well, stick to hope that you'll be alright and thriving, and taking care of yourself here is the right move. I'm sorry.


    It does. The worst part is that I am likely to lose my best friend through distancing myself from these other people. I've mentally worked through everyone else, if that makes sense. I'm alright with people drifting away/apart, I've never actively cut ties with people, though. I acknowledge that I will be fine and probably better off in the end. IT just hurts in the moment. Thank you again for your kind words.

    Also going on a cruise in two weeks. Lots of time to read and relax.


    View PostTsundoku, on 18 September 2023 - 07:48 AM, said:

    View PostPuck, on 17 September 2023 - 09:44 AM, said:

    So, how does one find new friends at 34 when one has found that what one thought of as friends aren't?It's fine, people change (or not, that being the issue here). But it's depressing.
    Sounds like a bit of a story if you care to share.


    Not sure anyone actually wants to read that but if you insist, here's a rambly summary. It was a good way to write own all the thoughts I have on this matter:

    Spoiler


    I need normal people in my life. People who are willing to communicate. People whom I can see in person more than twice a year. I don't care about anyone's taste in music, I'll come along to your favourite band as long as we can enjoy the moment. People whom I can have a freaking conversation with. I do not feel like myself with those people anymore. I still have my issues and bad character traits but I have grown in the past years and most of these people have not. That's really all there is to it.

    If not for the damned Dungeons & Dragons, I'd just go no contact. Nobody would notice, anyway.
  2. In Topic: What's messing with your groove?

    17 September 2023 - 09:44 AM

    So, how does one find new friends at 34 when one has found that what one thought of as friends aren't?

    It's fine, people change (or not, that being the issue here). But it's depressing.

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    Tsundoku 

    06 Apr 2024 - 20:36
    heya Pucko, it's been a while, hope you are OK
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    Tsundoku 

    15 May 2023 - 20:29
    another one Puckster, hope you're well
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    Tsundoku 

    02 Jul 2022 - 00:36
    All good, figured you've been busy :)
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    Tsundoku 

    15 May 2022 - 20:16
    and again Pucko
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    Tsundoku 

    16 May 2021 - 01:01
    Heya, happy birthday
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    Tsundoku 

    05 Jan 2021 - 01:18
    hmmm, sorry, scratch the Delilah ref - I just remembered what happens to her at the end of the song. Oops.
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    Tsundoku 

    15 May 2020 - 17:50
    2 birthday rep because the first was a cyrillic copy paste that came out looking like swearing, sorry
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    Tsundoku 

    15 May 2020 - 17:44
    and again O Puckiest one of all! Hope it's a great day
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    Tsundoku 

    16 May 2019 - 08:39
    Happy birthday Puckster
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    King Lear 

    28 Jun 2018 - 19:20
    Same. We're mutually terrible at this. It works XD
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    King Lear 

    27 Jun 2018 - 22:41
    Love you the mostest <3
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    King Lear 

    27 Jun 2018 - 21:24
    <3
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    Tsundoku 

    16 May 2018 - 09:20
    Happy birthday, hope you have a good one
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    King Lear 

    14 Nov 2016 - 17:27
    I'm in the US (so still with the ugly stuff, but less with ground refusing to still) I'm okay, and it looks like all friends and family are okay (if a little bit traumatised, apparently it's not a pleasant experience even for those who are not injured or have any property damage or anything).
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    King Lear 

    21 Aug 2016 - 07:38
    Puuuuuckkkkk
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