Raymond Luxury Yacht, on 09 April 2010 - 04:48 PM, said:
Here's a funny little story. Tipping is so ingrained into our culture, NOT tipping has become a vacation activity. Go to the all-inclusive resorts in mexico, Jamaica, HAwaii, and other such places. Often it is policy there that since it is all-inclusive tipping is strictly forbidden. Employees will be fired for accepting a tip. Th econcept of going to a bar and getting a drink without leaving a tip at these places is strange enough to us that I've heard many people specifically mention the novelty of it when discussing their vacation.
I don't have anything groundbreaking to add here, but thought I'd add my experience. I went to Cancun last summer to an all-inclusive, and even then the Americans tended to tip for every drink they ordered. I would guess it seemed to be a minimum of a dollar per order, sometimes a few dollars if it was a big round. It did seem pretty strange to us (we're from the UK, if anyone didn't know), because you've already paid for the drinks and the service in the price of the hotel. Considering how many drinks you'll need during the day in Mexico (whether it's water, coke, beer, cocktails or whatever) I imagine it added up to a lot of money over the holiday, I'm guessing about $15 US a day.
Of course, most of the US folk didn't seem to stay longer than a week whereas we were there for two, so maybe because they would have paid less for the flights and total hotel bill, they still saw it as a bargain. Oddly, we still tipped every night for the food, even though that was already paid for, and at the end of the two weeks we gave some money to a couple of the decent bar staff, but nowhere near as much as they would have had if we'd tipped after every drink. They must have thought we were a couple of tight-arses (maybe we are), but it seemed wrong to keep paying for every drink when all drinks had been paid for already. I guess that's my point - to us in the UK, we see bartending as not something you generally tip for, but food you do, even when it's a buffet! I have no idea how much the US folk tipped for food, but if they tipped a dollar for a drink, it must have been quite a lot.
edit - ooh, and a question for the Americans. When did the term "server" become so prevalent? It seems from this thread, plus when I spent a little time in the states, that "server" has become the preferred term over "waiter/waitress". What's that about? I would have thought that "server" was a more derogatory term, since it has echoes of "servant".
This post has been edited by Yellow: 10 April 2010 - 07:48 AM