Studlock, on 21 September 2013 - 12:40 AM, said:
I, and she, felt like this law is bent towards Christians....she argued that this another example of the 'invisible' majority subjecting the 'visible' minority to assimilate through the gaze of secularism and multiculturalism, and I can definitely see that POV.
This is so obvious it's not even funny.
What annoying as well is all this misdirected effort to force assimilation. People, it happens on its own. An example I think of is the latest wave of Chinese immigration coming from the Mainland, where in the last few decades, it was coming from HK and Taiwan. My parents are from the Hong Kong wave. Mainland Chinese are very, very different. Because of restrictions in their comings and goings in the last few decades, they've been cut off culturally from the rest of us and their outlook and behaviour has been shaped by some of their...unique challenges. When they come to Canada and interact with Canadians, they often come across as pushy, rude, and dirty. I've certainly had them come and act crazy at me at work. Like, screaming at me because I won't give them special treatment. But if you step back, you realize it's ok, because they are having their own kids here now and sending them to daycare and school here. And I'm starting to see these kids go through exactly the same thing I and every second generation kid has gone through. They'll pick up English at school and start talking to their siblings in English, which will cause no end of fretting for the parents who want them to remember some of their ancestral language. They'll see what all the other kids are doing at home and school and want to fit in by watching the same TV shows or listening to the same music or playing with the same toys or dressing the same way or eating the same food. Heck, I remember my mom would give me home cooked lunches in elementary school and I didn't want them because everyone else was eating PBJ sandwiches. What the heck was I thinking? I hate sandwiches. But I just wanted to be like everybody else. They'll start butting heads with their parents over what they are allowed or not allowed to do, many of these things having a lot to do with culture (e.g. dating, school and career expectations). From their preteen years onward, everything their parents do or want them to do, including maintaining their cultural identity, will seem embarrassing, because that's the way kids are. Just like every generation and every wave of immigrants in the history of the world. The best thing you can do to encourage assimilation is actually just to let people be what they are and cut the hostility. The hostility is the one thing that will make them think that they don't belong, which will cause them to stick together in their ghettos and make them cling to their old ways. Everyone wants to belong. Offer services to help them integrate and make them feel welcome. Free English/French classes. Seminars on how to navigate society, like job interview skills, or how to get car insurance, or how to open a bank account, or how to access healthcare, or what sort of things you can go to the police for. Then be patient, because it usually takes a generation.
Studlock, on 21 September 2013 - 12:40 AM, said:
It's not like letting people wear their selected religious wear (which oftens is cultural as well) is going to significantly change Quebec's identity. If anything it will add to it.
I have the distinct feeling that there is a powerful contingent of Quebecers who don't want anything added to it.