You don't need to apologize or answer me, even hesitantly, for as I said, I wasn't aiming my questions/point at you specifically. It just so happened your post had a number of example terms of what I was talking about, but it was more about the premise of the thread I suppose.
There's a world of difference between someone coming to you for nutrition/health/weight guidance and you providing it to the best of your ability, and just the general sense of disgust towards fat people that permeates a lot of these discussions (as exemplified by the OP site, which one can either take as "brutally honest", as its author claims, or actually quite extreme and mean spirited -- but still the question was "will this really help?" and not "who asked for this guy's help?!"). The assumption there being that it is
unfortunate that a person is fat, and it invades the language. And "Oh you poor dear, you're fat, so you must want to change that"
is an assumption, it isn't a sympathetic, thoughtful, or even particularly nice sentiment. Translated, it just means "
I wish you weren't fat, so you must too."
Hope that clarifies my angle on this.
This post has been edited by worrywort: 20 August 2012 - 02:59 AM