Terez, on 22 July 2016 - 12:17 AM, said:
Silencer, on 22 July 2016 - 12:10 AM, said:
Terez, on 21 July 2016 - 10:12 PM, said:
I agree with Darkwatch. Exposure is the first step toward healing; this has been proven time and again in recent history (i.e. the last century or so). Some will double down on their beliefs knowing they have company; others will be forced to face the ugliness of their own beliefs. The younger generation in particular will benefit from the exposure.
Like I said, so double-edged. I don't disagree with the original sentiment, but I do genuinely believe that very few people who are "forced to face the ugliness of their beliefs" will do any changing at all.
I see it happen all the time. I'm from Mississippi, arguably the most backwards state in the country. The internet is doing wonders for these people. Again, not all of them, and not overnight. But I've found it very interesting to watch friends and family gradually become more tolerant and liberal as the years go on. I used to vote Republican; I voted for W both times. My mother was a lifelong Republican; she voted for McCain in 2008 and Obama in 2012. Other friends and family are in various stages of progress. Maybe you're just not looking in the right places.
See, I consider that evidence to the contrary of your point. I don't think any of the people you're referring to have been forced to look their own beliefs in the cold hard light of day - I think they've been slowly beaten down by the long and consistent campaign to decry these values over the past couple of years. That is *quite* the opposite of getting a bunch of vocal wackjobs on stage, reinforcing and pandering to these beliefs on a national scale in an official capacity.
What you're talking about (it seems, anyway) is not what I think Darkwatch or I were talking about - you're talking about erosion/attrition through sustained ANTI-bigotry. That, I agree, works. What I took us to be talking about was people essentially having role models in high places stating and reinforcing bigoted beliefs, which I don't think works anywhere near as well. Because the former is a wearing down. Every time bigotry rears its head, it gets called out and decried, but softly, almost without focus. That works its way into the public psyche over time and erodes the beliefs calmly.
Having Trump and his cohorts bombastically shouting from the rooftops doesn't do that. It turns everything into a heated argument, a center of debate, and that is precisely the type of arena in which bigots are able to dig their heels in and stick to their guns, because everything becomes lost in one outrage after another and endless shouting matches.
While I'd say that you can't effectively wear away at bigotry as long as it is hidden (you need something to push against, after all), I don't think having it out there on this scale all at once is useful either.
Incidentally, while I might be the one not looking in the right places, I don't think "my anecdotal evidence trumps your anecdotal evidence" is a very worthwhile way to argue this point, T. For every family member you can point to who has changed, I can probably find one of my own who hasn't - and NZ is comparatively liberal to the US - even if that change was caused by confronting the whole grisly mess (which as per previous paragraph, I contend it isn't).