[Andorion]

"Lovely weather"...."April Snow"......

It has never stopped being 40C here this week! I have heatrash on both arms

[Gust Hubb]

Briar King, on 17 April 2016 - 05:02 PM, said:

Fuck that. I'd be outside playing in that April Snow

Wet snow, such that rivers are simultaneously running down the gutters. Nothing like a shoe soaked by ice water. Windy to boot.

[Gust Hubb]

Worst day/evening of every week...


Also, donated plasma for money tonight and was talking to this dude saying I looked forward to the day I didn't have to donate plasma. Said I worked at the hospital, which is a stingy overlord, and he commented except for the doctors. I didn't say anything.

[Abyss]

Briar King, on 17 April 2016 - 06:44 PM, said:

What is up with these 3 strong earthquakes in 3 days around globe?

STOP LOOKING AT ME!

[Grimjust Bearegular]

Solidsnape, on 17 April 2016 - 05:22 AM, said:

Sitting in the airport after saying goodbye to the family for another 8 weeks or so.
Harder than the first time.
I left the little one asleep because it was really early and he won't get back to sleep. He's going to be gutted when he wakes.
My oldest got up to see me off, and was crying from the second he opened his eyes.
Herself obviously kept her shit together for the sake of my boy, but she's hurting as well.
We've never been apart in the 15 years we've been together and she's by far my closest and best friend.
Hard man.
Need to make it worth all this shit.

What's happened? Where are you going?



One of my moles is looking really weird, like cancer-weird... Fuck. Need to make an appointment with my doctor ASAP.

[Mezla PigDog]

My mum and her partner are coming to stay for 5 nights from tomorrow. FIVE NIGHTS! They only live 3 hours away. I go to hers for 1 or 2 nights. Always leave them wanting more not glad to see the back of you - it's a key to good relationships. Now fingers crossed they follow up on the promise to be here to help rather than as guests since I still can't walk without it hurting my hip. Usually they treat the place like a hotel so we shall see.....

[Tsundoku]

Mezla PigDog, on 18 April 2016 - 09:22 AM, said:

My mum and her partner are coming to stay for 5 nights from tomorrow. FIVE NIGHTS! They only live 3 hours away. I go to hers for 1 or 2 nights. Always leave them wanting more not glad to see the back of you - it's a key to good relationships. Now fingers crossed they follow up on the promise to be here to help rather than as guests since I still can't walk without it hurting my hip. Usually they treat the place like a hotel so we shall see.....

Cool, more souls for the Master helping hands.

[Mentalist]

It would appear I pulled smth in my right glute. That's a new sensation

Unpleasant new sensation

[Gust Hubb]

Nervous energy about the mediation appointment this Wednesday. If it works, I can fill the remaining paperwork and have this divorce over by the first week of May while racking up less than $1000 in attorney fees....
If it fails, who the hell knows. Let you guys know on the appropriate thread. Almost there I hope.

[QuickTidal]

Gust Hubb, on 18 April 2016 - 05:15 PM, said:

Nervous energy about the mediation appointment this Wednesday. If it works, I can fill the remaining paperwork and have this divorce over by the first week of May while racking up less than $1000 in attorney fees....
If it fails, who the hell knows. Let you guys know on the appropriate thread. Almost there I hope.

Hope it all gets sorted without too much fuss. Crossing my fingers for you.

[amphibian]

Mezla PigDog, on 18 April 2016 - 09:22 AM, said:

My mum and her partner are coming to stay for 5 nights from tomorrow. FIVE NIGHTS! They only live 3 hours away. I go to hers for 1 or 2 nights. Always leave them wanting more not glad to see the back of you - it's a key to good relationships. Now fingers crossed they follow up on the promise to be here to help rather than as guests since I still can't walk without it hurting my hip. Usually they treat the place like a hotel so we shall see.....

Trust in your mother. She knows what it's like to have a newborn.

[Abyss]

amphibian, on 18 April 2016 - 06:49 PM, said:

Mezla PigDog, on 18 April 2016 - 09:22 AM, said:

My mum and her partner are coming to stay for 5 nights from tomorrow. FIVE NIGHTS! They only live 3 hours away. I go to hers for 1 or 2 nights. Always leave them wanting more not glad to see the back of you - it's a key to good relationships. Now fingers crossed they follow up on the promise to be here to help rather than as guests since I still can't walk without it hurting my hip. Usually they treat the place like a hotel so we shall see.....

Trust in your mother. She hopefully has not forgotten what it's like to have a newborn.

Ftfy. I dig the optimism but sometimes the reality...




Mez - i suspect that you already know this, but i`ll throw it here anyways... if there was ever, EVER, a time when you can lay down the law as far as family stayings, goings or doings anythings... yes, anythings... including breathing too loud, it's now.

Do not, under any circumstances, forget that your wants/needs/spurious-whimsical-random-bullshit-whatevers cover two people, one of who is utterly vulnerable and depends on you to make the correct decisions to remain happy and stress-free(ish).


What anyone else wants isn't even secondary or tertiary, it's vigenary (that's 20th.... wheeee latin!).

[Mezla PigDog]

amphibian, on 18 April 2016 - 06:49 PM, said:

Mezla PigDog, on 18 April 2016 - 09:22 AM, said:

My mum and her partner are coming to stay for 5 nights from tomorrow. FIVE NIGHTS! They only live 3 hours away. I go to hers for 1 or 2 nights. Always leave them wanting more not glad to see the back of you - it's a key to good relationships. Now fingers crossed they follow up on the promise to be here to help rather than as guests since I still can't walk without it hurting my hip. Usually they treat the place like a hotel so we shall see.....

Trust in your mother. She knows what it's like to have a newborn.

This isn't an attack at you but these kind of statements really get my back up. The worst kind of them are the soppy ones like "every girls father is her hero". I've had people say it to me and I want to strangle them. God knows how people whose parents mistreated them deal with that kind of thing. Just by virtue of having procreated does not make you a useful person. Some parents are utter twats.

But anyhoo, my mum mostly means well but is and always has been hugely self absorbed. I practically raised myself from the age of 16. I'm attempting to give her a reset. This visit is supposedly to help me around the house and garden and then she's coming again in June on her own after the baby arrives and when Mr PigDogs paternity leave has ended. The Abyss nuclear option will be rolled out if it has to be and there may need to be a difficult conversation to point out her partner does not automatically get to be around as if he was my dad. She retired last month so my sister keeps winding me up that she is going to try and move in! I shall endeavour to remain zen.

[amphibian]

Oh I thought the baby was due nowish, hence the visit.

Everyone in my family is kinda on the edge of their seats regarding the results of some medical tests for my father. Cancer or not, it's not a pleasant experience.

[Abyss]

Mezla PigDog, on 18 April 2016 - 09:42 PM, said:

amphibian, on 18 April 2016 - 06:49 PM, said:

Mezla PigDog, on 18 April 2016 - 09:22 AM, said:

My mum and her partner are coming to stay for 5 nights from tomorrow. FIVE NIGHTS! They only live 3 hours away. I go to hers for 1 or 2 nights. Always leave them wanting more not glad to see the back of you - it's a key to good relationships. Now fingers crossed they follow up on the promise to be here to help rather than as guests since I still can't walk without it hurting my hip. Usually they treat the place like a hotel so we shall see.....

Trust in your mother. She knows what it's like to have a newborn.

This isn't an attack at you but these kind of statements really get my back up. The worst kind of them are the soppy ones like "every girls father is her hero". I've had people say it to me and I want to strangle them. God knows how people whose parents mistreated them deal with that kind of thing. Just by virtue of having procreated does not make you a useful person. Some parents are utter twats.

But anyhoo, my mum mostly means well but is and always has been hugely self absorbed. I practically raised myself from the age of 16. I'm attempting to give her a reset. This visit is supposedly to help me around the house and garden and then she's coming again in June on her own after the baby arrives and when Mr PigDogs paternity leave has ended. The Abyss nuclear option will be rolled out if it has to be and there may need to be a difficult conversation to point out her partner does not automatically get to be around as if he was my dad. She retired last month so my sister keeps winding me up that she is going to try and move in! I shall endeavour to remain zen.

Yeah, there's a natural tendency if not perceived need to try to reset family or certain parts of them, with a baby on the way. It's not so much a potential mistake as a misplaced priority. Adjusting familial behaviour is a trial at the best of times - the chronically self absorbed can be particularly trying - and this is the most exciting and awesome of times, but the best, no, not so much, or at least not the best for this kind of thing.

Doesn't mean you shouldn't try. But it does mean the instant you find yourself moving from optimistic fuzziness to stress, shelve this plan til later. Vs pregnancy, it can wait. It will wait. And it doesn't have to be you going nuclear... Mr Pigdog is gonna be a daddy, he can play enforcer now.
Just my $0.02.

[Mentalist]

So yesterday I didn't feel too bad (after 3 games on Sun), due to the fact I had a deadline @ work + a make-up gam after work. So I'm guessing I mostly kept myself toned and together on adrenaline/anticipation

Today, with all the pressure off, I feel sore pretty much everywhere, from ankles to shoulders. Not the "i've damaged smth" sore (although my l. ankle does look swollen), but the decently pleasing "I'm physically exhausted and wrung out" sore.

Which is normally a GREAT feeling. Except I have to work. And all I want to do I sleep.

The fact that my office has no AC and a wall-sized window facing south (so, in the sun all day) is NOT helping

[DeadHedge]

I'm currently trying to write an application for a new job. Its an ideal post as it would involve expanding on my current knowledge (finance based) as well as extra responsibilities and a significant pay bump.

My problem is, I haven't written an application in over 3 years and the process for these has changed internally since then so I am really struggling. I know what I want to write I am struggling with the putting it into coherent sentences.

Although it did make me smile by being able to tell my dick of a boss that I was applying for a new post lol

[Maark Abbott]

Goddamn lag when I'm playing feyters online. I'm holding back, Y U NO BLOCK TAGER YOU BIG RED DUMBASS?

[Gust Hubb]

Wish me luck, this is it, the day of mediation where we hammer out the final divorce details. If this goes well, I am free on the 3rd. If not, this goes into overtime, while I am in the worst, most soul sucking rotation of my residency.

[Tiste Simeon]

Gust Hubb, on 20 April 2016 - 12:22 PM, said:

Wish me luck, this is it, the day of mediation where we hammer out the final divorce details. If this goes well, I am free on the 3rd. If not, this goes into overtime, while I am in the worst, most soul sucking rotation of my residency.

All the best man, we're rooting for you. This divorce has been tiring for all of us...