Andorion, on 03 December 2015 - 02:46 AM, said:
As far as I know, not a lot of mass shooting victims know or have antagonized the shooter - for example the theatre shootings. So when you go to the movies, you don't think of that? Interesting.
I am comparing this to two phenomena we have a lot of here - sexual violence and traffic accidents due to rash driving.
From what I have seen, sexual violence si never far from the minds of women especially if they are returning home a bit late.
Regarding traffic accidents, I have often been ona bus that is racing another bus and I remember thinking "Ok, so this is the day I am in a bus accident. Will I die, or just be injured?"
Assault and sexual assault is probably never far from the mind of an adult woman anywhere in this world. It was a huge "change your view of the world" moment when I truly realized this. I listened to my best friend explain how she picked a place to live and how she walked home at night, while realizing I basically never did any of that outside of some really, really sketchy areas of Kathmandu, and that this series of patterns and way of thinking was nearly baked into her (and most women's) view of the world.
I think what makes it slightly different in the Middle East/South Asia is the speed and frequency with which a person assaulting a woman can become a mob assaulting that woman.
As for shootings at movies, I go so infrequently - and almost never to the big gala movies - that I don't fear that at all. It seems like the shooters target the big movies and I'm always going to things like Inherent Vice or Crimson Peak, which will probably never get attacked. Art house movie people aren't worth the assaulting, not even for deranged mass murderer wannabes.
I do occasionally worry about a paranoid redneck shooting my father when he's on his civil engineering inspection tours out in the countryside of New York. He's kinda white/Iranian looking because some Nepali are like that, but he's got a name that's not "white American" for sure. We've only had one "incident" in which a landowner objected to a beaver dam being pulled down and slightly flooding his land (pulled down because it was blocking a culvert's water flow) and had irate words with another engineer of our company.
I survived the Permian and all I got was this t-shirt.