Grimface Insultbear, on 01 March 2011 - 10:14 AM, said:
25 kg?! Holy crap, that's impressive...how long did that take you?So far I've stopped eating pizza, hamburgers, hot dogs, all sorts of delicious yeast.based pastries and baked goods. I don't eat bread at all, really. I've switched ground beef (which we use a lot) to a type of minced meat with less fat, switched to a "lighter" cheese, "lighter" butter, diet soda if I drink soda and tried to limit my daily intake to 1100 calories, which for me means eating breakfast, lunch and dinner and nothing in between. The nothing in between is the hard part as I tend to eat when I'm bored, and I'm bored quite often. Oh, and I don't drink that much alcohol either.
Dear God woman, are you
trying to eliminate reasons to live???
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The only place I won't budge is chocolate...I refuse to live without it! But I try to limit my chocolate devouring to the weekends
Quite right, chocolate is heavenly. Dark chocolate FTW though - less fatty and full of those yummy endorphin-pleasers. Plus apparently antioxidants. Who knew?
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...As for exercise..quite frankly, I hate it. For it to work for me at all, it must be simple and easy to get into...not like stupid Zumba
It's funny how the people in those exercise ads (especially the Zumba ones) don't actually need to exercise. Yeah right, they all got those tight abs (and perfect skin) from Zumba ...
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But I walk to to and from work, and I'm on my feet quite a lot during the work day. But yes, I know eating less, exercising more is the key to losing weight.
Actually, finding the right motivation is the key to victory with exercise. I am a total non-self-starter, which is why PT at work is good for me. Find a gym buddy, or better still forget gym fees and just get a friend that is either a good motivator or at least someone you can each guilt-trip the other into going for a power-walk, or a swim (yuck, I loathe swimming as exercise) or maybe using those random footpath exercise things that are all over the place in cities nowadays, usually in nice areas. Hell, even if you only do it at home all you need is some weights and a bench - a backyard picnic table and easily-gripped objects of various weight around the house can double. But most aerobic exercise is free if you start with a rapid walk (swing your arms, it helps) and slowly build up to a light jog over several weeks. Then extend the distance. Boring as shit, but mp3 players help (not near traffic though).
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I blame my bf, I eat what he eats, eat when he eats and roughly the same portions as well.
... aaaaand whose fault is that, exactly? Oh yes, it's always our fault, my bad, sorry I forgot.
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And the bastard keeps telling me I look good no matter what
Don't blame him, he obviously loves you regardless of a few curves. Curves are good, mmmmkay?
Centzon Totochtin, on 01 March 2011 - 10:35 AM, said:
25kg took me about a year, I'm not looking for fast weight loss, I want to enjoy life too. Boyfriend will never help weight

Au contraire, Dr Sombra draws your attention to the fact that a good session of sweet, sweet rumpty can burn as many calories as a half of football (FOOTBALL, not soccer, or handegg), among many other health and wellbeing benefits.
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My goal is not really to lose weight, but to be healthier and happier, so as long as I am feeling better and still enjoying life, I'm all good. I hate diet food, don't drink lite milk, don't eat diet cheese or butter, just reduce the amount of the bad fats that I eat and all that jazz. As long as you are happy with the way your feel and live your life and your health, then do whatever the hell you like

D'accord.
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My groove is messed with from work. I feel almost ill. I have either just taken a great opportunity or made a very stupid decision and I am not sure which right now. Either way I have asked for a year secondment from my supervisor (who is a great boss, and a lovely person as well) and I know how much it sucked for her to hear me ask that and I hated doing it and feel horrible

I hate to say this, but you know what I always say about the first feeling you get after making a big decision ... ?
I'm sure there will always be a place for you there if you change your mind later on though, so take comfort in the fact you seem to be valued there. A lot of people aren't at their work.
It will be OK.
"Fortune favors the bold, though statistics favor the cautious." - Indomitable Courteous (Icy) Fist, The Palace Job - Patrick Weekes
"Well well well ... if it ain't The Invisible C**t." - Billy Butcher, The Boys
"I have strong views about not tempting providence and, as a wise man once said, the difference between luck and a wheelbarrow is, luck doesn’t work if you push it." - Colonel Orhan, Sixteen Ways to Defend a Walled City - KJ Parker