[Maark Abbott]

Mezla PigDog, on 15 December 2023 - 06:24 AM, said:

Maark Abbott, on 11 December 2023 - 08:51 AM, said:

Work is a dumpster fire right now. Too much work (double the caseload compared my old job [currently I have somewhere a bit over 300], when it's a mix of complex and noncomplex which is demonstrably unsustainable), an exec who clearly haven't worked this sort of job before and just want bigger numbers all the time, and departments and processes that actively work against us or contradict other processes. I really feel like I'm beginning to burn out from the stress.

I feel you my friend! I have a gammy eye, my second cold in 3 weeks, living off quick junk food, shattered from overwork.

Just got to make it to Wednesday then I start my Christmas break.

Objective: survive, amirite

[Macros]

just make it to wednesday is the goal right now

[stone monkey]

I have a member of staff who's not doing his job all that well and have had to have a couple of fairly unpleasant (for both of us tbh) conversations with him. He's a very pleasant young man, but he's probably not suited for the job; we can't really rely on him. Unfortunately that's also been spotted by the higher-ups too, and, worse, other members of the team. This is a part of my job that I do not like at all.

[Cause]

Some strange random thoughts that are messing with my groove:

I am sad I didn’t grow up having an American Christmas as a Chile. Former colleagues are sharing with me photos of their trees, house decorations, piles of presents and it truly does seem like an amazing core memory of childhood. Hell it looks fun for the adults too

I ordered groceries online. They arrived in ten Walmart plastic shopping bags but of the kind your supposed to pay for and reuse multiple times. However the delivery guys must get them for free. I now have several plastic bags that are even more bad for the environment and nothing to do with them but dispose of them. Ridiculous outcome of an initiative meant to help the environment

I also bought a large tub of yoghurt. In SA a product like this in addition to having a best before date would have instructions of how many days to keep refrigerated once open before disposing it as unsafe. America doesn’t seem to do this for some reason.

[Azath Vitr (D'ivers]

Cause, on 22 December 2023 - 08:14 PM, said:

Some strange random thoughts that are messing with my groove:

I am sad I didn't grow up having an American Christmas as a Chile. Former colleagues are sharing with me photos of their trees, house decorations, piles of presents and it truly does seem like an amazing core memory of childhood. Hell it looks fun for the adults too

I ordered groceries online. They arrived in ten Walmart plastic shopping bags but of the kind your supposed to pay for and reuse multiple times. However the delivery guys must get them for free. I now have several plastic bags that are even more bad for the environment and nothing to do with them but dispose of them. Ridiculous outcome of an initiative meant to help the environment

I also bought a large tub of yoghurt. In SA a product like this in addition to having a best before date would have instructions of how many days to keep refrigerated once open before disposing it as unsafe. America doesn't seem to do this for some reason.

IDK why more Jewish people don't just celebrate it as a secular holiday (maybe christen it Giving Tree Day or something?). Especially when their children don't even speak a language in which the association between 'Santa' and 'Saint' is obvious (so odd that public Christmas displays in the US these days so rarely depict Santa resurrecting the butchered pickled children from the barrel... or maybe it's the salted butchered children in the tub:

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In France the evil butcher became St. Nicholas servant and has followed him ever since. This is the most popular story in France, set to a well-known and beloved song. The image of Saint Nicholas with children in a tub at his feet is the most widespread image of the saint in Western Europe.

The Evil Butcher ::: St. Nicholas Center (stnicholascenter.org)

). My Jewish grandmother refused to do Easter but had no issue with celebrating (no-Christianity) Christmas. OTOH I wonder how many Christians swap out the tree for a festive shining red cross to decorate (... with sacrifices? or spears in the side of Jesus?... he could be filled with blood and water, like a fountain...).

If it's any consolation, think of all the people getting long covid (or worse) for Christmas. Borne across vast distances....

This post has been edited by Azath Vitr (D'ivers: 22 December 2023 - 08:45 PM

[Mezla PigDog]

Cause, on 22 December 2023 - 08:14 PM, said:

I also bought a large tub of yoghurt. In SA a product like this in addition to having a best before date would have instructions of how many days to keep refrigerated once open before disposing it as unsafe. America doesn’t seem to do this for some reason.

Yoghurt is good until it smells bad. I ignore all use by dates apart from meat and fish. And meat I'll go over a couple of days if it smells ok, hasn't been out of the fridge since I bought it and is going to be well cooked. I've eaten yoghurts over a week out of date.

This is where some microbiology training is either saving me money or lulling me into a false sense of security before I kill my family with listeria.

[Maark Abbott]

Neighbours.

I assume (read: hope to fuck) these are just visiting for chrimbobs up the road; I live on a main road with no on-road parking and have an alley at the back of the house for car access, with a gated driveway. Up the road has suddenly had three cars parking outside for them (before they'd had none), and at times parking directly across our drive, both across the car gate and the foot gate.

Wouldn't be so annoyed if not for that I'd spoken to one of the people driving in who'd said they'd make sure it didn't happen, and I get up this morning and the car is blocked in again - I didn't have to go anywhere today but I frequently do at 5:30am and if that was the case today, well, I'd have had to knock on their door until they came out to move it - at 5:30am.

Also wife didn't get the job so back to poverty we go

[Cause]

With the new job is makes sense financially and also by necessity to finally buy a car I think. I had by no means made a choice as I am not a car person and need to do quite a bit of research egarding parking, insurance and the cars itself.

I was contemplating a Tesla 3 base model which with a tax credit didn’t seem to unreasonable. However in 2024 the base model lost the credit and only the most expensive version retains it which is ridiculous.

[amphibian]

Cause, on 06 January 2024 - 08:30 PM, said:

With the new job is makes sense financially and also by necessity to finally buy a car I think. I had by no means made a choice as I am not a car person and need to do quite a bit of research egarding parking, insurance and the cars itself.

I was contemplating a Tesla 3 base model which with a tax credit didn’t seem to unreasonable. However in 2024 the base model lost the credit and only the most expensive version retains it which is ridiculous.

Get a Hyundai Ioniq - same price range, better comfort features and ride, plus company doesn't put out piece of shit vehicles. Assuming you're ok going without the tax credit.

I quote the Consumer Reports review: "The Ioniq 6 takes the core mechanical elements of the all-electric Ioniq 5 and wraps them up in a more aerodynamic sedan. The sleek 6 is aimed right at the Tesla Model 3, with the Hyundai surpassing it with its more comfortable ride, quieter interior and more intuitive controls. Quick acceleration and responsive handling make the Ioniq 6 fun to drive, while a competitive driving range and a relatively speedy at-home charging rate make it easy to live with."

[Azath Vitr (D'ivers]

Cause, on 06 January 2024 - 08:30 PM, said:

With the new job is makes sense financially and also by necessity to finally buy a car I think. I had by no means made a choice as I am not a car person and need to do quite a bit of research egarding parking, insurance and the cars itself.

I was contemplating a Tesla 3 base model which with a tax credit didn't seem to unreasonable. However in 2024 the base model lost the credit and only the most expensive version retains it which is ridiculous.

Reminds me of these two (fittingly juxtaposed) headlines in Barron's today:

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Donald Trump Wants to Rip Up EV Tax Credits. He’s Probably Right.

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Why Invest in the Saudi Dictatorship?

Why? ... because Barons love evil, obviously!

[Maark Abbott]

Stress continues to grind me down. I've got some medication from the doctor - neighbours haven't caused any issues directly but someone is moving in next door at present, parked accordingly and up the road's response was to not obstruct my driveway but park down the hill from the entrance (good). Where it's bad is that the manner of parking should be considered abandoning a car in the middle of the road.

Work stress is getting to me and wife isn't working after Primark fell through so we are sort of on a timer to get her back working so we can actually afford to live without parental handouts. It's an overall very depressing situation and I've felt close to skirting a breakdown myself a couple times recently.

[TheRetiredBridgeburner]

amphibian, on 06 January 2024 - 10:25 PM, said:

Cause, on 06 January 2024 - 08:30 PM, said:

With the new job is makes sense financially and also by necessity to finally buy a car I think. I had by no means made a choice as I am not a car person and need to do quite a bit of research egarding parking, insurance and the cars itself.

I was contemplating a Tesla 3 base model which with a tax credit didn't seem to unreasonable. However in 2024 the base model lost the credit and only the most expensive version retains it which is ridiculous.

Get a Hyundai Ioniq - same price range, better comfort features and ride, plus company doesn't put out piece of shit vehicles. Assuming you're ok going without the tax credit.

I quote the Consumer Reports review: "The Ioniq 6 takes the core mechanical elements of the all-electric Ioniq 5 and wraps them up in a more aerodynamic sedan. The sleek 6 is aimed right at the Tesla Model 3, with the Hyundai surpassing it with its more comfortable ride, quieter interior and more intuitive controls. Quick acceleration and responsive handling make the Ioniq 6 fun to drive, while a competitive driving range and a relatively speedy at-home charging rate make it easy to live with."

Not specifically the Ioniq, but partner and I both drive older Hyundais (i10 and i20 respectively) and we've both said when we come to change cars another Hyundai will be top of the list - both are still very reliable and drive nicely, the only big repair costs have been the sort of inevitable part replacement you'd expect for +10 year old cars.

This post has been edited by TheRetiredBridgeburner: 08 January 2024 - 11:17 AM

[Azath Vitr (D'ivers]

Hyundai also owns Boston Dynamics, so by buying a Hyundai you're helping to fund videos like this one:




... as well as the eventual end of de facto forced (human) labor. So win-win-win-...

(Yes Tesla is developing humanoid robots, but you know Elon Musk is just going to use them to try to conquer the world for himself... and he would be a terrible world dictator.)

[Lady Bliss]

Had another treatment on my throat this morning and they found that my hiatal hernia has come back. After they are done with the throat treatments (hopefully in March) I’ll need to have the surgery again.

[amphibian]

Lady Bliss, on 11 January 2024 - 08:40 PM, said:

Had another treatment on my throat this morning and they found that my hiatal hernia has come back. After they are done with the throat treatments (hopefully in March) I’ll need to have the surgery again.

Dang. I hope it's mostly smooth sailing to March then.

[amphibian]

Lady Bliss, on 11 January 2024 - 08:40 PM, said:

Had another treatment on my throat this morning and they found that my hiatal hernia has come back. After they are done with the throat treatments (hopefully in March) I’ll need to have the surgery again.

Dang. I hope it's mostly smooth sailing to March then.

[Maark Abbott]

Struggling mentally lately. Wife continues the job hunt but more and more I feel like I'm losing hope. It's not on her - she's busting her ass with applications and interviews. I just can't get shot of this hollow feeling in my chest.

[Lady Bliss]

Maark Abbott, on 12 January 2024 - 12:50 PM, said:

Struggling mentally lately. Wife continues the job hunt but more and more I feel like I'm losing hope. It's not on her - she's busting her ass with applications and interviews. I just can't get shot of this hollow feeling in my chest.

Are you taking something for depression? I know that helps and got me through the hell of 2023. This may sound hokey and hard d to do this time of year, but my Mom always used to tell me to go spend time outside. The sun and fresh air perk me up a bit.

[Tiste Simeon]

Lady Bliss, on 12 January 2024 - 01:18 PM, said:

Maark Abbott, on 12 January 2024 - 12:50 PM, said:

Struggling mentally lately. Wife continues the job hunt but more and more I feel like I'm losing hope. It's not on her - she's busting her ass with applications and interviews. I just can't get shot of this hollow feeling in my chest.

Are you taking something for depression? I know that helps and got me through the hell of 2023. This may sound hokey and hard d to do this time of year, but my Mom always used to tell me to go spend time outside. The sun and fresh air perk me up a bit.

The sun part is an issue in the north of England especially at things time of year...

For real though I do find a bit of a walk even if it's Baltic outside does help clear the head a bit.

[Tsundoku]

Nowhere near on the scale of what people are going through above but ...

Holidays go way too fast. Back to work tomorrow. Fuck.