My friend is annoying me.
I sent him a 50 second voice note reminding him we have to meet tonight to discuss our holiday plans and mentioning some of the things I know we need to discuss. He replied he remembered but that he would not listen to the whole voice note because he is 'actually' busy and we could discuss the plans tonight. He then accidentally texted me a message meant for someone else that is def not work related.
The thing that bugs me is that he does this all the time. He complains non-stop about how hectic his job his, his workload etc with what I would say is more than a little condescension towards myself and others we know that implies we are less busy. The thing is I know what he does at his job (we both used to work at the company part time as students- he is now a manager) and I know that he is not actually that much busier than myself or the rest of our friends.
Its an extension of my irritation from after working nights and weekends in the lab for my PhD he would say something along the lines of I was still a student and I should wait till I got a job. I may have been a student but I guarantee you, ask anyone, a PhD is not a vacation.
This post has been edited by Cause: 11 January 2018 - 11:55 AM