Posted 07 June 2009 - 09:35 AM
What sort of breed? The ones who are starting to date and do that kind of "stuff"? Well, I wouldn't get too down about it. I mean, it's not as if you're a pathetic loser if you haven't had a gf by your age. Far from it. I hadn't, and was still wide-eye stupid about girls. Around the start of Year 11 though things started to turn around for me. So give it time, and don't rush anything, because that'll just make you more self-conscious and be more of a hindrance than a help.
As to the girl, well, I'd befriend her, or at least be on friendly terms with her. Talk to her at parties, at school etc. and establish a rapport. If she reciprocates the feeling then go for it. If you're not sure, then go for it anyway. worst thing she can say is no, and you'll be regretting it if you don't at least have a crack.
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