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  1. In Topic: What is sex?

    18 August 2021 - 05:51 PM

    Reading about this woman INFURIATES me for some reason. My opinion: she has 100% cheated on you by anyone's definition of sex. I can't remember how long ago it was but you posted about your relationship with her and how you were in a dark place mental health-wise. If I recall correctly the gist of your past post was this: my wife is at the best of times emotionally draining, resistant to help for her issues, distant, selfish, ect. but I love her, and when I am at a great place emotionally I can put up with it by doing everything so she can relax, but lately she has been even worse and I am also in a poor place mentally so I am really struggling right now. At the time I am pretty sure I posted that you needed to get out of the relationship. At that time I was convinced by your comments that she was cheating, and also a total asshole. Now I am 100% sure she is and has been cheating on you for some time. Let me make this very clear, she DID NOT FALL ASLEEP at his house when she went over there to talk, she had sex with him. She admitted that he loves her, and that she loves him, and that she has been hiding this for a year. You do not need sex or cheating defined to know that she cheated and had sex in every definition of those words. I am so sorry that she did this to you because you sound like a great and caring guy. I am going to be blunt and tell you that it sickens me a bit to hear you describe her in the glowing terms you used. You did not marry above your station, you married a brat. You met your current woman after being in a long term relationship that ended because she realized she was gay. Of course you felt like you were meant to be together, and that you were fated to be. That is how everyone feels at the beginning of a relationship, butterflies, and emotional highs. These feelings are multiplied by the length of time it has been since you last felt them. I am sure by the time things were ending with your first wife it was hard to remember all the highs you felt when you were first together. Add to this the fact that your current lady likes to escape her problems by finding things to keep her occupied, and she was escaping some pretty hellish loss when you met, and viola she seems magically vivacious, and you are experiencing new love butterflies and it seemed fate. She is not waves at sea, flitting magic, she is a selfish person who is lacking in the empathy department. She wants what she wants when she wants it. She works hard and plays hard because she sounds to me like the type of person that has to keep moving so reality, and dealing with things never has to set in. Trust me when I say that you are not dull or boring because you are not a party animal, or because you are only into monogamous relationships. There is nothing wrong or less than about you, and based on what you've said about her now and in the past, she doesn't sound like a free spirit she sounds like a person who only cares about herself and gets what she wants because she doesn't care who she hurts to get it. Everyone above said the same things way more politely but it just angered me to read your posts where you bash yourself and then idolize a person who is not worthy of it. Good luck with your divorce and I'm sorry that she did this to you.
  2. In Topic: COVID-19 (aka Coronavirus, aka 2019-nCoV)

    21 June 2021 - 02:35 PM

    I had my first shot Saturday, slightly sore arm and really mild "medicine head" feeling for awhile in the evening but otherwise good to go.
  3. In Topic: Mark Lawrence thread for all things Mark Lawrence'y'ish

    18 June 2021 - 03:59 PM

    I have always intended to do a Lawrence re-read but was waiting for the girl and the stars trilo to be done. Well the other day I picked up Prince of Thorns and I'm already onto Emperor. I love this trilogy. Last year I didn't make my reading goals and this year looks to be even worse but I am blasting through these books so hopefully I continue at this pace.
  4. In Topic: COVID-19 (aka Coronavirus, aka 2019-nCoV)

    18 June 2021 - 03:53 PM

    Get my first jab tomorrow morning!
  5. In Topic: Mark Lawrence thread for all things Mark Lawrence'y'ish

    03 April 2021 - 01:59 PM

    https://www.wattpad....s-ladder-part-1

    Free Mark Lawrence story