worrywort, on 16 December 2012 - 12:15 AM, said:
nacht, on 15 December 2012 - 11:27 PM, said:
What is offensive about it? Could there potentially be a correlation?
It is offensive to suggest that hetero-normative nuclear bio-families are the best possible type of family, and by implication that all other families are worse (even if you place them in a hierarchy of degrees to pretend you aren't degrading all of them). You didn't say stable families are better than unstable families, you made a particular affirmative claim about one single type of family.
I'm not going to pretend I have patience for any conclusions you're drawing from the Lanza family in particular, since as far as anyone here knows, these details bear nothing on his actions. And while I can't believe that anyone has to say it to anyone else yet again, we are living in perhaps the most peaceful time in human history, you'd be hard-pressed to find a kid in ANY developed nation whose hobbies don't include sports and video games, and just as Ulrik states, your school volunteer civilian militia idea treats none of the problem and may even make things worse. If Trayvon Martin hadn't been murdered by one such volunteer, he may have something to tell you about vigilante justice.
Ah, In that case I apologize. I had no intention to imply any particular superiority nor do I have any desire to manifest any change in the social order especially by statist decrees. The world is what it is.
The topic started off like this.
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I added by 2 cents to give some alternative suggestions of how we can preserve both the 2nd ammendment while protecting our children. Personally I dont think rescinding the 2nd ammendment is possible, practical or desirable.
The reason I chose to enunciate these alternatives is because I respect the members of this forum (where do you find people who read 15+ hard to read books) and we choose to brainstorm potential solutions to this issue.
Ulrik,
It is hard to understand the gun culture in the US. I myself am not a US citizen but I came to understand what it stands for. It is the last line of defense to protect their life, liberty and property. It may very well be the reason why petty dictators like saddam hussein, bashar assad etc. never existed in the US.
Imagine you live in a remote area, and some stranger is furiously knocking on the door. Are you thinking
1). I am glad there is gun control in my country and hopefully that guy does not have one or
2). Where the fuck is my shotgun
There is a misplaced notion that government is a benign big brother. Tell that to the syrian rebels.
If people want to be sheep, somebody will want to be the shepherd.
On the other hand, imagine Udey hussain going to Appalachia and telling somebody what to do. That shit is not going to happen.
The fucked up decision by Adam Lanza was a series of events. He did not wake up one day, decided to grab a gun and go to the school.
In the warped up human mind, there is a series of events that led to this trigger. My proposition is that breaking that chain at any point would have prevented this disaster.
Just 2 days back there was a shooting in Oregon. It was everywhere in the news. That guy had psychiatric problems, his father left the family, it seems his mom was staying home either because she did not have a job or choose not to work. He tried to buy a gun and failed so he might have killed her to get access to them.
Ultimately, it's true that the gun was the instrument and preventing access to it would have mitigated the disaster.
But can you imagine the "not so visible benfits". how a gun might have helped a lady from getting raped, maybe helped a father take care of his children without dying while they were still young.
Anyways...