KingTeholBeddict, on 21 June 2011 - 08:50 PM, said:
Back home from Germany...
No more cheap alcohol for me...
Otherwise... Still can't get any girls... which I really think sucks...
Y'know, for a moment I thought you were Tehol, and I was like: "all you have are sons? Since when?"
and then the coin dropped.
Anyway, you don't "get" a girl. Unless you search the Yellow Pages.
If a girl's interested in you, she'll let you know... subtly or not so subtly. They too are people and thus have confidence issues, wants, needs and ideas, y'know.
Not getting their attention is a pity but the only thing you can do about it is ease up. Focus on having a good time, and when good times are had and you feel awesome and relaxed, go and make some eye contact, smile at a girl looking at you, et cetera. You'll see soon enough whether she's interested. And if it turned out it was accident your eyes met, don't let that affect you.
You don't go to a bar or a dancing or whatnot for sex or picking someone up. You go for fun, and the same goes for girls. Flirting, kissing and going home for steamy stuff can be a part of that, but usually, it isn't.
Everyone is entitled to his own wrong opinion. - Lizrad