Posted 03 January 2011 - 08:30 AM
Got seriously riled up on the New Year (not Eve). Friends took to calling me a 'golfer' and make references to that and laughing like hell about it... but they won't tell me why. They say if they told me it wouldn't be funny anymore. I asked them to stop several times but they just kept on doing it, so I ragequit and went home (which took me over 2 hours, by the way). I'm seriously furious about this, and I'm actually starting to question our friendship if they value having a laugh from time to time over me being, you know, fine with it, or not feeling hurt about it. How do I make them understand that this is a serious matter?
It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood, who strives valiantly; who errs and comes short again and again; because there is not effort without error and shortcomings; but who does actually strive to do the deed; who knows the great enthusiasm, the great devotion, who spends himself in a worthy cause, who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement and who at the worst, if he fails, at least he fails while daring greatly. So that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who know neither victory nor defeat.