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What's messing with your groove?

#23920 User is offline   Andorion 

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Posted 01 February 2018 - 05:11 PM

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I don't drive. For my primary 2 hour 30 minute commute, the college has arranged a carpool system, so that is comfy and has very few hassles.

For the once a week 4 hour commute, I take 2 trains - 1 a subway, then a local intercity. On the plus side, the trains are absurdly cheap, fairly regular and fast. But they are crowded, so getting a seat is a bit iffy, and the intercity is crowded. But then again, this is becoming my primary audiobook time.

View PostMentalist, on 01 February 2018 - 03:31 AM, said:

View PostAndorion, on 01 February 2018 - 02:30 AM, said:

Another thing messing with my groove - my commute

My normal commute is - 2 hours and 30 minutes total both ways, and on wednesdays when I have to go to a totally different campus, its 4 hours both ways.

People who commute, how bad is this?


4 hours is a bit excessive.

if there's any hint of traffic or bad weather, my commute can stretch up to hour and a half one way. not factoring in any subway malfunctions, which, as QT will confirm, are rather frequent.

On a good day, especially on my way home, if I catch all both buses w/o excessive waiting, I can pull off close to an hour.

so yeah, I'd say 3 hours is still more or less normal, but 4 on a regular basis is pushing it a bit. if it's only once a week, that's not too bad, imho.


Yeah, its once a week, and probably won't be around after June.

View PostTsundoku, on 01 February 2018 - 12:19 PM, said:

5 minutes from my garage to work car park.

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I've previously had 1- 1 1/2 hour commutes though, so I figure it's only fair.


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View PostSilencer, on 01 February 2018 - 12:30 PM, said:

15 minute walk.

I used to do a 30 minute drive, maybe up to 45 in bad traffic as my "everyday" commute - going to my work's second location was anywhere from 1 hour to 2 hours depending on traffic conditions. The first one was not ideal, but is what I'd consider "normal". The latter is unacceptable and is an utter waste of time.

We're at a point where the standard working hours of 40 a week is being looked at as excessive and bad for productivity. I'm fully on board with that number going down. But if you subscribe to the 8/8/8 split of your day (8 hours of work, 8 of play, and 8 of sleep), the current 8 hour work day is even more bullshit. Because you're spending 8 hours at work and then 2 hours commuting - time which you don't get paid for, but is definitely not leisure time, either (worse if you're driving, but I do envy the people who can read and whatnot on public transport). So either your sleep or leisure time is reduced by that trip, which is why the old "work/life" balance is fucked up.

If you're spending even more time than that commuting? That's just bad for your health, imo. It has to have a negative impact on your relaxation time to some degree. Waking up earlier than necessary to get to work on time, or just spending time doing nothing productive while travelling...blegh.



*disclaimer - I may have just spent most of 10 hours today working, because apparently if you give me the ability to work from home and the team's SLA is on the line, I become even more of a workaholic. But honestly that's not a good thing.


Yeah, I get what you are saying. I am somewhat lucky that being a teacher, I get to be productive for nearly the entire time I am at work, and being a reader, audiobooks take the sting out of the long commutes somewhat, but in general our work life balance is a bit skewed.


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View PostAndorion, on 01 February 2018 - 02:30 AM, said:

Another thing messing with my groove - my commute

My normal commute is - 2 hours and 30 minutes total both ways, and on wednesdays when I have to go to a totally different campus, its 4 hours both ways.

People who commute, how bad is this?


My commute is three hours total, but I only work two or three days a week at that place, so I don't mind. I would mind if I had to do that every day during the work week. I honestly think it depends on what your possibilities are and how often it happens. For example, if you have an hour + of commute time but can't afford to move closer to your work place (as in my case) but at the same time, you're taking a public transport where you read (if so inclined) or whatever, I don't see it as that much of a bad thing. I get a lot of reading done on the train and I certainly don't envy people who drive to work, especially if it's a long-ish drive. Driving seems to me like a waste of time if taking the train takes only a bit longer but allows me to do something else in the meantime. I'd be spending that extra hour of leisure time with reading anyway. Also, psychologically, I see my commute time in the morning as the perfect time to wake up and get mentally ready for work (I don't do that at home, I just drown my coffee and am out the door). While when driving you need to be awake and mentally present the moment you get into the car, dosing on the train is perfactly viable. Samr goes for my after work commute; it's the perfect time to think about what I want to make for dinner and what I need to buy for that, etc. Honestly, even if I had a driver's license I would still take the train because I need the time pre work to get mentally ready.

Sure, a shorter commute is nicer, but personally I'm not too fazed about anything that takes about an hour one way. Two hours seems excessive, but if it's only once a week it sounds alright unless you personally find it unbearable and/or have the means to move.


Yeah I would hate to have to drive for my commutes. Traffic here is horrific, I would be tense all the time and would be exhausted by the time I turn up for work.

View PostMentalist, on 01 February 2018 - 02:30 PM, said:

As long as you don't drive, commuting isn't terrible.

In the morning, I get more sleep commuting.

In the evening, I read (or sleep some more).

But I started commuting about 12 years ago (when I got my first summer job), and the commute was about 3 hours both way for a 9 or 10 hour shift, so my worldview might be biased.



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View PostMentalist, on 01 February 2018 - 02:30 PM, said:

As long as you don't drive, commuting isn't terrible.

In the morning, I get more sleep commuting.

In the evening, I read (or sleep some more).

But I started commuting about 12 years ago (when I got my first summer job), and the commute was about 3 hours both way for a 9 or 10 hour shift, so my worldview might be biased.


I second ALL of this. Now that I have a child, my home-time is usually taken up by either looking after her morning routine or nighttime routine, and then watching TV with my wife....so my commute is where I do ALL my reading.

I'm about 1hr+ each way...and there are a lot of delays that make it more like 1.5hrs.

But it's fine. I read, or watch something on my phone. It's quiet, and enjoyable ME time.

I also used to commute about 2-3hrs each way for 6 years.


I have found that audiobooks are better than reading on public transport. This way my hands are free and this is important as I quite often don't get a seat on the subway.

View Postamphibian, on 01 February 2018 - 04:37 PM, said:

A daily commute of 1-2 hours one way would be a deal breaker for me in some way. I would move closer or get a different job.

For the last ten years, my commute has been 15-25 minutes driving one way.

The amount of time I can put into other things in comparison to someone who has a one way commute of over an hour accumulates mightily over years. I will get more family time, more leisure time,and I can even work more. If I feel like it, I can go home for lunch, which helps when my partner is away and the dog needs a run or if something needs doing at home.

That's worth a decent wad of money. My answer would be the same if this were a situation in which public transportation was the method I used to get to work. I don't want to spend two or four hours of every day sitting in transportation just to get to work and home.

People may make their choices differently regarding this, but I come down firmly on the "live close to work" side. I realize this is very hard for many people in major cities due to skyrocketing rent/housing prices, but I would do everything I could to chop twenty to thirty minutes off that hour plus commute. My ex lived in Manhattan and she managed to find a place that gave her a single bedroom with a thirty minute sub/walk trip to work every day.


Yeah, but since both my current campuses are in rural areas with absolutely zero local amenities, it isn't really an option for me. I mean my view for the last 10 minutes before I enter the gates is exclusively crop fields and fish ponds.
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Posted 01 February 2018 - 05:38 PM

A fairly some way to look at a work commute.

What do you get paid per hour, what is your time worth? What could you earn in that time? Ergo, what should your company be paying you for it?
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Posted 01 February 2018 - 06:10 PM

View PostMacros, on 01 February 2018 - 05:38 PM, said:

A fairly some way to look at a work commute.

What do you get paid per hour, what is your time worth? What could you earn in that time? Ergo, what should your company be paying you for it?

I think he's salaried, rather than hourly. But using this lens of money does help. How hard is it to find a small apartment for rent in between the two campuses? It might actually be worth it to move out of the family home for this, even in South Asia.
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Posted 01 February 2018 - 07:00 PM

This thread is making me value my 20 minute bike ride to work every day.
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Posted 01 February 2018 - 08:11 PM

I win. One day a week my commute is a 1hr drive each way. I like the chance to be alone and unable to do chores! Three days a week my commute is up the stairs to my office. And the last day of the week I don't work. Mwah mwah.
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Posted 02 February 2018 - 12:48 AM

Anything over an hour I simply won't do without travel pay.
Simples.
Don't like it? Put me up beside work and I will live there during the week.
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Pay someone willing to be fucked over travelling on their own time, someone more desperate for work, will they be as good as me? Take the chance and find out, but you rang me buddy, I didn't ring you
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Posted 02 February 2018 - 01:48 AM

View Postamphibian, on 01 February 2018 - 06:10 PM, said:

View PostMacros, on 01 February 2018 - 05:38 PM, said:

A fairly some way to look at a work commute.

What do you get paid per hour, what is your time worth? What could you earn in that time? Ergo, what should your company be paying you for it?

I think he's salaried, rather than hourly. But using this lens of money does help. How hard is it to find a small apartment for rent in between the two campuses? It might actually be worth it to move out of the family home for this, even in South Asia.


Won't work, I am afraid. My two campuses are in the extreme North and South and my house is more or less in the centre, even situated along the main axis of travel.

That is what really messes with my groove sometimes, the knowledge that there isn't much I can do to improve the situation.
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Posted 02 February 2018 - 07:01 AM

View PostAndorion, on 01 February 2018 - 02:30 AM, said:

Another thing messing with my groove - my commute

My normal commute is - 2 hours and 30 minutes total both ways, and on wednesdays when I have to go to a totally different campus, its 4 hours both ways.

People who commute, how bad is this?


This is abuse.

My current jobs competition was going to be a 45-60 min commute one way vs the ten min commute of my current job. That alone decided which one I would take. 45 min is unfortunate probably an acceptable commute, but 75 mins one way is harsh and 2 hours is madness. That's 'work time' with no compensation and is probably some stress and aggravation you don't need. If you don't have a choice I guess you don't have a choice but that sounds horrible. Did you discuss any form of transport allowance when they hired you?
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Posted 02 February 2018 - 07:37 AM

My commute is 60 minutes from my front door to that of work - 15 minutes to the station, 20 on the train, 15 from the station in Sheffield to work. Never more. Same back in the evening. It lets me catch up on social stuff and reading so it's not all bad.
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Posted 02 February 2018 - 07:54 AM

It takes me about 15 minutes from door to door - home to office. Before I bought my current place my commute was just under an hour and it felt awful.
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Posted 02 February 2018 - 01:51 PM

View PostCause, on 02 February 2018 - 07:01 AM, said:

View PostAndorion, on 01 February 2018 - 02:30 AM, said:

Another thing messing with my groove - my commute

My normal commute is - 2 hours and 30 minutes total both ways, and on wednesdays when I have to go to a totally different campus, its 4 hours both ways.

People who commute, how bad is this?


This is abuse.

My current jobs competition was going to be a 45-60 min commute one way vs the ten min commute of my current job. That alone decided which one I would take. 45 min is unfortunate probably an acceptable commute, but 75 mins one way is harsh and 2 hours is madness. That's 'work time' with no compensation and is probably some stress and aggravation you don't need. If you don't have a choice I guess you don't have a choice but that sounds horrible. Did you discuss any form of transport allowance when they hired you?


Abuse might be a bit harsh. I know people with worse commutes.

As for travel expenses, the college pays for the normal carpool, so I pay nothing, and on the 4 hour day I get a TA which more than covers it. Expense is thankfully not an issue. But it can get very tiring
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Posted 02 February 2018 - 02:11 PM

View PostMaark Abbott, on 02 February 2018 - 07:37 AM, said:

My commute is 60 minutes from my front door to that of work - 15 minutes to the station, 20 on the train, 15 from the station in Sheffield to work. Never more. Same back in the evening. It lets me catch up on social stuff and reading so it's not all bad.


Damn, not bad. I've got around the same time and I bleeding live *in* Sheffield (well, Birley).
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Posted 02 February 2018 - 02:21 PM

View PostAndorion, on 02 February 2018 - 01:51 PM, said:

View PostCause, on 02 February 2018 - 07:01 AM, said:

View PostAndorion, on 01 February 2018 - 02:30 AM, said:

Another thing messing with my groove - my commute

My normal commute is - 2 hours and 30 minutes total both ways, and on wednesdays when I have to go to a totally different campus, its 4 hours both ways.

People who commute, how bad is this?


This is abuse.

My current jobs competition was going to be a 45-60 min commute one way vs the ten min commute of my current job. That alone decided which one I would take. 45 min is unfortunate probably an acceptable commute, but 75 mins one way is harsh and 2 hours is madness. That's 'work time' with no compensation and is probably some stress and aggravation you don't need. If you don't have a choice I guess you don't have a choice but that sounds horrible. Did you discuss any form of transport allowance when they hired you?


Abuse might be a bit harsh. I know people with worse commutes.

As for travel expenses, the college pays for the normal carpool, so I pay nothing, and on the 4 hour day I get a TA which more than covers it. Expense is thankfully not an issue. But it can get very tiring


Just want to point out, "I know people who have it worse" and variants is a horrifyingly common response from people suffering domestic violence. Obviously this is not really comparable but thought it was a very interesting way for you to respond. So maybe "abuse" is in fact an accurate term? >.>
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Posted 03 February 2018 - 06:47 AM

My commute is a 5 mins walk or a 2 mins drive on my bicycle.

Gotta love going home for lunchbreak and to walk our dog.

Messing with my groove.

I bought a new phone last week and somehow was thinking that my sim card was the same size, well what do you think, of coarse not.

Called my brother if he could order a new card for me since we are on the same plan and he arranges those things and he did.


It arrived at my parents and they were supposed to come here this weekend and take it along, but it seems we have to get there for the third weekend in a row.


We were actually planning to not go out that much this weekend.
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Posted 03 February 2018 - 09:49 PM

You're moaning about music on something called "Poprocks"?
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Posted 04 February 2018 - 02:04 AM

View PostSilencer, on 02 February 2018 - 02:21 PM, said:

View PostAndorion, on 02 February 2018 - 01:51 PM, said:

View PostCause, on 02 February 2018 - 07:01 AM, said:

View PostAndorion, on 01 February 2018 - 02:30 AM, said:

Another thing messing with my groove - my commute

My normal commute is - 2 hours and 30 minutes total both ways, and on wednesdays when I have to go to a totally different campus, its 4 hours both ways.

People who commute, how bad is this?


This is abuse.

My current jobs competition was going to be a 45-60 min commute one way vs the ten min commute of my current job. That alone decided which one I would take. 45 min is unfortunate probably an acceptable commute, but 75 mins one way is harsh and 2 hours is madness. That's 'work time' with no compensation and is probably some stress and aggravation you don't need. If you don't have a choice I guess you don't have a choice but that sounds horrible. Did you discuss any form of transport allowance when they hired you?


Abuse might be a bit harsh. I know people with worse commutes.

As for travel expenses, the college pays for the normal carpool, so I pay nothing, and on the 4 hour day I get a TA which more than covers it. Expense is thankfully not an issue. But it can get very tiring


Just want to point out, "I know people who have it worse" and variants is a horrifyingly common response from people suffering domestic violence. Obviously this is not really comparable but thought it was a very interesting way for you to respond. So maybe "abuse" is in fact an accurate term? >.>


Yeah I know. Commutes can definitely be better - a lot of people over here who don't drive have 20-30 minute commutes by bus, which is perfectly manageable and cheap. But at the same time a very significant part of the population do have it worse than me. I have the distinct advantage of commuting against the major croud flow so trains are a lot less crowded. Google "Indian local train crowds" once and you will see what others put up with. Given this reality, I would put my situation on the mild-moderate edge of bad.

View PostDutch, on 03 February 2018 - 06:47 AM, said:

My commute is a 5 mins walk or a 2 mins drive on my bicycle.

Gotta love going home for lunchbreak and to walk our dog.

Messing with my groove.

I bought a new phone last week and somehow was thinking that my sim card was the same size, well what do you think, of coarse not.

Called my brother if he could order a new card for me since we are on the same plan and he arranges those things and he did.

It arrived at my parents and they were supposed to come here this weekend and take it along, but it seems we have to get there for the third weekend in a row.

We were actually planning to not go out that much this weekend.


It really is about time that they standardised this stupid micro-nano BS. I got a nano sim for one phone, used it for a year and a half then traded it in for one with a better processor, and had to get a micro sim for it. All this hassle is so unnecessary.
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Posted 05 February 2018 - 01:47 AM

OK, I really, really, really should not be grumbling about this, but here goes anyway

For the first time in my life, I am making enough to actually qualify for income tax, and frankly the hassle of doing all the tax calculations is turning me libertarian.

Honestly, I have nothing against taxes at all, but dammit, does the process need to be so stupidly complex???
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Posted 05 February 2018 - 02:05 AM

View PostAndorion, on 05 February 2018 - 01:47 AM, said:

OK, I really, really, really should not be grumbling about this, but here goes anyway

For the first time in my life, I am making enough to actually qualify for income tax, and frankly the hassle of doing all the tax calculations is turning me libertarian.

Honestly, I have nothing against taxes at all, but dammit, does the process need to be so stupidly complex???


I've often thought the entire process could be simplified down to




1) How much money did you make in the past fiscal year?

2) How much do you have left?

AMOUNT OWED: (see question 2.)
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Posted 05 February 2018 - 02:07 AM

Does that not lead to excessive spending so the answer to point 2 is "nothing, therefore you can't tax me!"?

I work for a company that has an HR/payroll dept so I don't have to do any tax stuff myself. :(
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Posted 05 February 2018 - 05:01 AM

In a system where necessities are universally guaranteed, and the unemployed (including children and retirees) are cared for, "excessive" spending would just mean 'excess' currency circulating instead of stagnating.
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