What's messing with your groove?
#12022
Posted 08 July 2012 - 09:24 PM
Sombra, on 08 July 2012 - 10:48 AM, said:
Why is it ALWAYS me who has to compromise and make the effort to understand women's feelings? I don't think I've ever once heard any popular call for women to make even a token effort to see things from the male side of things. You know - the LOGICAL side.
In my relationship, she's the logical one and I'm the emotional one. Just being honest here. It's way more fun to be the emotional one, I've gotta say. I don't know why anyone ever chooses to be the not crazy one in the relationship.
Laseen did nothing wrong.
I demand Telorast & Curdle plushies.
I demand Telorast & Curdle plushies.
#12023
Posted 09 July 2012 - 12:59 AM
Wry, on 29 February 2012 - 10:50 AM, said:
And you're not complaining, you're criticizing. It's a side-effect of being better than everyone else, I get it sometimes too.
~TQB~
#12024
Posted 09 July 2012 - 01:22 AM
Summer finally started two days ago and over a month late. I was looking forward to spending the weekend in the sun, but apperently it was not do be. I threw my back out and spent most of the weekend lying down and trying not to move very much instead. Still not sure if I'll be able to go to work in the morning.
#12025
Posted 09 July 2012 - 04:12 AM
Somehow I'm the bad guy because I don't feel my friend is a victim. The only thing he is a victim of is his own stupidity.
He was sleeping with a woman a few months ago who is in a longstanding relationship with a guy that my friend has drinks with on a regular base. Now she has found out she is pregnant and has told my friend he is the father. Somehow, because I wouldn't just agree that the affair was her fault and sit there referring to her as 'the bitch' & 'slag' and because I don't feel the need to tell my friend it isn't his fault or to feel overly sorry for him because a) he might have an unexpected baby on the way and 2) when/if her partner finds out he'll likely beat the shit out of my friend like he did the last guy (put him in ICU and was charged for it) his missus screwed around with. Well then maybe he shouldn't have been fucking another man's woman!!!
He knew what he was doing and he is just as equally responsible for the situation. I understand that it isn't going to be easy and he is going to have months ahead of him before he can know for sure if the kid is his etc but then maybe, just maybe, he shouldn't have said 'Fuck you!' to his morals and common decency in the first place.
I get it. He made a mistake. And as his friend I fully intend to help and support him in anyway but that does NOT mean I have to approve of what he did or overlook his role in it. The fact that people are defending his actions makes me question just what kind of people they are.
At least my friend is owning up to what he did and isn't making excuses for himself.
He was sleeping with a woman a few months ago who is in a longstanding relationship with a guy that my friend has drinks with on a regular base. Now she has found out she is pregnant and has told my friend he is the father. Somehow, because I wouldn't just agree that the affair was her fault and sit there referring to her as 'the bitch' & 'slag' and because I don't feel the need to tell my friend it isn't his fault or to feel overly sorry for him because a) he might have an unexpected baby on the way and 2) when/if her partner finds out he'll likely beat the shit out of my friend like he did the last guy (put him in ICU and was charged for it) his missus screwed around with. Well then maybe he shouldn't have been fucking another man's woman!!!
He knew what he was doing and he is just as equally responsible for the situation. I understand that it isn't going to be easy and he is going to have months ahead of him before he can know for sure if the kid is his etc but then maybe, just maybe, he shouldn't have said 'Fuck you!' to his morals and common decency in the first place.
I get it. He made a mistake. And as his friend I fully intend to help and support him in anyway but that does NOT mean I have to approve of what he did or overlook his role in it. The fact that people are defending his actions makes me question just what kind of people they are.
At least my friend is owning up to what he did and isn't making excuses for himself.
This post has been edited by Loki: 09 July 2012 - 04:15 AM
Wry, on 29 February 2012 - 10:50 AM, said:
And you're not complaining, you're criticizing. It's a side-effect of being better than everyone else, I get it sometimes too.
~TQB~
#12026
Posted 09 July 2012 - 06:43 AM
Whoa, that sucks Loki. But seriously, males ALL be crazy! Sorry, men, but f you didn't have balls and a pe-ni-ni, there wouldn't be enough trucks to take you all to the dump.
They came with white hands and left with red hands.
#12027
Posted 09 July 2012 - 07:55 AM
The funk of unemployment is setting in. I'll find something, but for now it feels bad. On a brighter note, our loan officer said that despite me losing my job, we are still approved for the same amount on a home loan, but that means that my salary compared to the wife's is literally irrelevant. Nice work, way to make something of myself.
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#12028
Posted 09 July 2012 - 11:33 AM
Went out yesterday and they tried to steal my car.... were stopped by a car guard person. So all they really managed to do was break my car so now i have had to send it in to get fixed and it is going to cost me a butt load of money.
Not to mention that the cop who drove by stopped only tell yell at us and threaten to arrest us for vandalism cause al the garages didnt have a tow rope so we were trying to use some tape from the side of the road.

You never have the same problem twice when you set it on fire
#12029
Posted 09 July 2012 - 04:07 PM
I'm not Wry

Wry, on 29 February 2012 - 10:50 AM, said:
And you're not complaining, you're criticizing. It's a side-effect of being better than everyone else, I get it sometimes too.
~TQB~
#12030
Posted 09 July 2012 - 04:29 PM
worrywort, on 09 July 2012 - 06:43 AM, said:
But seriously, males ALL be crazy!
Yes, women are all thoughtful, lucid, well-rounded individuals who never showcase any crazy, ill-judged, piss poor decisions.
You may as well say that HUMANS are crazy, since that statement is true.
Stating it's just males makes me wonder if you've met a broad selection of women on this planet.
"When the last tree has fallen, and the rivers are poisoned, you cannot eat money, oh no." ~Aurora
"Someone will always try to sell you despair, just so they don't feel alone." ~Ursula Vernon
"Someone will always try to sell you despair, just so they don't feel alone." ~Ursula Vernon
#12031
Posted 09 July 2012 - 04:34 PM
QT.. please read a few posts before worry's, especially Sombra's on the previous page. And then cool down

Puck was not birthed, she was cleaved from a lava flow and shaped by a fierce god's hands. - [worry]
Ninja Puck, Ninja Puck, really doesn't give a fuck..? - [King Lear]
Ninja Puck, Ninja Puck, really doesn't give a fuck..? - [King Lear]
#12032
Posted 09 July 2012 - 04:35 PM
I just posted and for a moment my post existed and then it disappeared......... 
I was complaining about losing access to TQB's subforum and as such not being able to post in the ME Squee thread.
EDIT: Whilst I am denied access to my profile settings, chat and TQB subforum I seem to have gain some accessed to other hidden places. Just how many hidden subforums does this site have....?

I was complaining about losing access to TQB's subforum and as such not being able to post in the ME Squee thread.
EDIT: Whilst I am denied access to my profile settings, chat and TQB subforum I seem to have gain some accessed to other hidden places. Just how many hidden subforums does this site have....?

This post has been edited by Sombra.: 09 July 2012 - 04:44 PM
Wry, on 29 February 2012 - 10:50 AM, said:
And you're not complaining, you're criticizing. It's a side-effect of being better than everyone else, I get it sometimes too.
~TQB~
#12033
Posted 09 July 2012 - 04:36 PM
Puck, on 09 July 2012 - 04:34 PM, said:
QT.. please read a few posts before worry's, especially Sombra's on the previous page. And then cool down 

Actually, look for Loki's.

Wry, on 29 February 2012 - 10:50 AM, said:
And you're not complaining, you're criticizing. It's a side-effect of being better than everyone else, I get it sometimes too.
~TQB~
#12034
#12035
Posted 09 July 2012 - 04:40 PM
Wry, on 09 July 2012 - 04:37 PM, said:
Please, you know you're just the German-defiling, arse-painted-kitchen-floor, Irish hotty version of me.

Wry, on 29 February 2012 - 10:50 AM, said:
And you're not complaining, you're criticizing. It's a side-effect of being better than everyone else, I get it sometimes too.
~TQB~
#12036
#12037
Posted 09 July 2012 - 04:59 PM
Wry, on 09 July 2012 - 04:57 PM, said:
Now that's a threesome

Wry, on 29 February 2012 - 10:50 AM, said:
And you're not complaining, you're criticizing. It's a side-effect of being better than everyone else, I get it sometimes too.
~TQB~
#12038
Posted 09 July 2012 - 04:59 PM
Puck, on 09 July 2012 - 04:34 PM, said:
QT.. please read a few posts before worry's, especially Sombra's on the previous page. And then cool down 

Cool down?
Wut?
I'm not "hot" in any way (other than the obvious).
Just joining in the convo.
Am I not allowed to contribute anything now without it being construed as freaking out?
Dafuq?
This post has been edited by QuickTidal: 09 July 2012 - 05:02 PM
"When the last tree has fallen, and the rivers are poisoned, you cannot eat money, oh no." ~Aurora
"Someone will always try to sell you despair, just so they don't feel alone." ~Ursula Vernon
"Someone will always try to sell you despair, just so they don't feel alone." ~Ursula Vernon
#12039
Posted 09 July 2012 - 05:13 PM
Less freaking out and more 'how many hands is that there horse of yours?' thing I guess.
Mottfather, who art in chat, hallowed be thy name, thy empire come, thy magic be done, on wu as it is in warren. give us this day our daily cahpters, and forgive us our timeline, as we forgive yours, lead us not into goodkind, but deliver us from ayn rand, for thine is the series, the epic, the glory, I<3WJ ~ Obdi and GH
#12040
Posted 09 July 2012 - 05:24 PM
Mott, on 09 July 2012 - 05:13 PM, said:
Less freaking out and more 'how many hands is that there horse of yours?' thing I guess.
I'll give a dollar to anyone who can translate that for me

Wry, on 29 February 2012 - 10:50 AM, said:
And you're not complaining, you're criticizing. It's a side-effect of being better than everyone else, I get it sometimes too.
~TQB~