Macros, on 10 November 2017 - 10:10 AM, said:
I want the long painful version!
Morgoth, on 10 November 2017 - 11:49 AM, said:
Okay....
I had some misgivings given how over the top the compliments over Facebook were before - I mean yes, I can accept I'm not The Thing From The Black Lake to look at, but you can definitely massively overdo the saying nice things thing! I did voice that sort of thing makes me a tad uncomfortable and otherwise kept politely changing the subject.
Then on the day, well, the fact I'd mentioned being uncomfortable was even brought up (by him) only to be dismissed with "I'm going to keep giving you compliments" in rather the manner of "because it's the thing to do".
(At which point I think I just about managed to not point out maybe he should get his head out of "The Handbook" and listen to what I'm actually saying.... I think I'd given up by then.)
Largely, there's just nothing endearing about talking to someone who's seemingly poleaxed by your very existence having only known you for five minutes. It's just weird and awkward and not fun. Couple it with unnecessarily finding reasons to touch me - nothing inappropriate but the sort of hand in small of back, hand on shoulder stuff. For no reason at all. Apparently twitching violently away is not hint enough to pack it in.
Other than that, just the general "no spark" and finding him far too full on.
Amph, she's lovely!

would agree there's definitely some GSD in the mix!
I think I may well just go the puppy route!!
This post has been edited by TheRetiredBridgeburner: 10 November 2017 - 08:25 PM