D, on 23 June 2014 - 01:57 PM, said:
We did that for 8 years or so, then we stopped doing sunday school, then gradually stopped going to church every Sunday and soon it was only at Christmas and Easter. After a while longer, we stopped doing that, too, except for the occasional random one-off (probably depends on where we were. If we were in North Bay for Christmas, there's probably a better chance we'd go because the Xmas Eve midnight mass there is kinda cool). I think as they got older and started having more disposable income and the great north american shopping mall/box store/walmart culture came my grandparents started to relax about life and become more open-minded, and my parents realized this and felt the grandparents would be okay with us backing off on the whole church thing. Definitely if I or any of my siblings had wanted to we could have kept going, but none of us really cared all that much for it so we didn't.
This is almost exactly the same as my childhood, although since my family moved around a fair bit we did a bit of the social stuff as well, just to meet people. My mum's still fairly religious but she doesn't attend church because she can't find one that doesn't preach traditional roles for women. My dad's not that fussed, and even my grandparents have recently stopped attending church "because it goes on too long and the church is cold and we don't like sitting for so long".
I still try to get to midnight mass at Christmas, because I like the ritual and the ceremony, and it brings back good memories, and there's singing Any non-existent hypothetical children I had would probably get the morals and values I find important without the religion, except enough to understand that it's important to respect other people's religion so long as it wasn't hurtful to others.