Powder, on 22 January 2010 - 08:49 PM, said:
-Powder
lol, of course we want you to stay - it's rare that we get Christians in here that do anything beyond chant the usual slogans, and though you throw them around every now and then, your posts are more involved than that. Don't take it personally if we use you as a punching bag; we do that to Gem too but we are still fond of her, and she is a tough girl so here she remains. When I said there are no hard feelings, I meant it, though it would of course become problematic if you continued to push those buttons. There are probably a good number of Christians on the board who are silently cheering you from the sidelines because they haven't got the tenacity to hang in the religion forum. No offense to them: arguing is not everyone's thing, and people avoid religion in particular because religious people (particularly the Abrahamic ones) are notoriously sensitive on the subject and atheists are notoriously ruthless when it comes to debate, which makes religion debates a mess nearly everywhere you go.
The only really offensive thing about your posts to me was the sympathy, because it assumes, at a base level, that you are in a privileged position, as a Christian, and I am to be pitied for my blindness to the Truth, or the regrettable incidents that led to my estrangement from the Church. I'm just letting you know that I'm happy with being an atheist, and that there's no reason to feel sorry for me. What's past is past, including the offense. I get emotionally invested in arguments every now and then, whether I'm discussing religion or politics or music or fantasy books. It's a little different for you, because your religion is all-important, so your level of emotional investment will be something you have to watch out for, because it can sometimes interfere with the argument that you are trying to get across. It is unavoidable, that you believe that you are privileged as a Christian, but when you start pouring on the sympathies, it gets to be a little much for me.
Anyway, your passion for your religion doesn't offend me in the slightest; I understand that a desire to share the Good News with people is a huge part of your belief system, even though I was never fond of recruiting myself, when I was a Christian. My dad is big on recruiting, though, and my stepmom is one of those over-the-top people that will try to sell Jesus to pretty much everyone she meets; she's very nearly the definition of patronizing. I don't have any hard feelings toward her for it - she takes care of my dad, and he loves her, and that's what really matters to me - but it does offend me on a purely logical level, and it took me years of effort to reduce it to that. If I didn't have a family connection to her, it would be more difficult for me to blow her off....but then, there would be no reason for me to come into contact with her at all.
Also, I apologize for the overuse of the trademark slogans, since you found them offensive. You assumed that my reason for using them was that I was recruited to the religion in this way, and was bitter about it, but my indoctrination was much more comprehensive than that. I was familiar with the slogans, but only in the sense that there was always a widespread effort across the globe to boil Christianity down into concepts that were accessible to the unwashed masses, and I don't think there are many Christian churches that can escape responsibility for that effort. Having been raised in the church, I was familiar with the slogans, but they weren't for me. There were a good number in my church who didn't dig much deeper than the slogans, but they were always seen by the inner, active core of the church, like me, as being questionable, and probably not Real Christians™ (which is a concept that is widespread across nearly every denomination of the faith, though of course the concept is rarely boiled down in as many words in polite conversation). My church wasn't into anything like passing out tracts on Bourbon Street on Fat Tuesday, but I've seen a good number of those tracts over the years, and I can't really say that the one-on-one conversations that were typical of my church's approach to recruiting were much different in content, though there's usually a good bit of effort on the part of the recruiter to learn about the Lost One's past, especially if it's sinful (because everyone wants your juice, even the noble recruiter for Jesus). Then there is the fact that my church along with nearly every Christian church in the world supports third world missionary work. In my region of the country, churches are packed with people who believe that socialism or any form of government charity is the DEVIL, and they think that their tax money would be better spent supporting good Christian charity organizations that give the Good News along with food and clothing.
In my opinion, it's a racket that was created, not by one individual with a nefarious plan but by an amalgamation of various human motives over time, in the race to be the world's dominating religion, and to stay that way. For what purpose? It's always ostensibly a noble purpose to show people the Truth of your religion, among those religions that do proselytize. As I'm sure you're aware, many religions do not proselytize, and the ones that do proselytize are quickly taking over the world, even in the East where the indigenous religions are mostly non-recruiting. Those religions are non-recruiting, for the most part, because of a 'many paths' philosophy concerning Truth, to the point that 'conversion' to other religions is somewhat paradoxical. The religions that recruit are the ones that claim to have the One Path to the Truth, and that in particular is what disturbs me, especially considering that it usually involves an assertion that certain privileged individuals will inherit the earth, while others will burn in hell for their sins. Worst is when there is an implication that a murderer who 'repents' is a better person in God's eyes than a generally law-abiding citizen who believes in a different god.