Hmmm, what it seems Topper is getting at is Toc has suffered through something quite a bit worse than death.
While Topper was probably wrong in his/her use of the word "death" in his/her first post, I think his/her main point (or implied point) is that being toruted with the use of Matron sucks beyone belief (<--haha, wow, that's really clunky...if you need clarification, I can attempt to try again

), and that death is much more preferable.
I don't think this topic is about Toc's death, rather about the tragedies that he's gone through. (Original post:
The poor guy's already died twice and been brought back. He's now lost an eye three times and at the end of RG he dies again. Only to come back again some time in the future. Poor sap.)
Poor guy
(This site is fepic. I can't believe I didn't find it sooner)