amphibian, on 28 February 2011 - 04:40 PM, said:
Ain, on 28 February 2011 - 07:29 AM, said:
I'm just not the sort of guy who can do the random one-night hook-up thing. I don't know why. Maybe there's something wrong with me.
Stop visualizing it in your head as a "one night stand" or a "relationship". There's stigmas and concepts that are attached to both that make it seem like hooking up is bad, when in actuality, just about everybody does it and enjoys the process/results.
I don't think that in this day and age there's actually many one time hook-ups. It's too easy to stay in contact with the other person and have things happen again. In fact, a ton of the long-term relationships I've seen through college and the times afterwards were hook-ups that stuck around. Things just developed from that "shunned" beginning.
Just focus on having a good time and being confident. The rest will take care of itself as long as you're open to the opportunities that come up. Kiss whoever you find attractive if you can.
I agree with every bit of this. Sex is not love. Sex is sex and sex is fun. Be safe and have a blast!