Abyss, on 20 January 2020 - 06:22 PM, said:
That said, she called foul because she thought he was a comedian who makes fat jokes. If he isn't, he could have chimed in with 'i have never actually made a fat joke'. He didn't.
The funny thing is that she literally had ZERO evidence that he would do any such thing because it simply didn't exist. I can't find any instance of him making fat jokes at all. And funnily enough any incidents of him hosting awards shows are generally him being quite circumspect and honourable, including the Eisners. It would have taken her a hot minute to find that (videos included) before going on a multi-tweet tirade...and I REALLY don't think it's on
him to chime in anything to her about her own imagine slights.
As someone said in that thread, imagine the self-importance you'd need to assign yourself to be like "In this room full of SFF fans and creators, the host might single ME out for my own personal issues that hit MY nerve!"...and then to go on and say that you are yourself a comedian who would be a better choice. It all smacks of such hubris, and all based around things she imagined him saying that he never said.
Basically, Neil Gaiman (
who wrote a post about this too) asked him to host on behalf of the Hugos and he accepted, and was doing so pro-bono because he's a huge SFF nerd. Then a bunch of people shit their pants because a decidedly milquetoast version of Ricky Gervais might not cater to their individual foibles and triggers.
Abyss, on 20 January 2020 - 06:22 PM, said:
(It appears his self-stated overweight 17-yr old daughter did that... which is a whole other issue i suppose).
Honestly, his daughter was super nice about it...but if I were his kid I'd be pissed off with the multi-tweet Caps Lock rage invective that had been levelled at my parent for shit he didn't do, and likely wasn't even dreaming of doing. And if my wife had to LEAVE a social media platform because the tweets someone made at us made her platform untenable...yeah...not cool.
Should I hold her responsible for making a mistake on the internet 5 years ago? Maybe not, but my eyeball time is my eyeball time...shrug...and I'll spend it as I see fit. This also means that I will never have any idea what you all are talking about with regards to the Laundry files because I won't read Stross either...but he's done more than one thing to earn being an author I won't read.
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