A couple of quotes from a little book I bought recently - hilarious
INSTRUCTION AND ADVICE FOR THE YOUNG BRIDE
on the Conduct and Procedure of the Intimate and
Personal Relationships of the Marriage State for the
Greater Spiritual Sanctity of this Blessed Sacrament
and the Glory of God – by Ruth Smythers, beloved
wife of The Reverend L. D. Smythers, Pastor of the
Arcadian Methodist Church of the Eastern Regional
Conference – Published in the year of our Lord 1894
Spiritual Guidance Press New York City
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“While sex is at best revolting and at worse rather painful, it has to be endured… One cardinal rule of
marriage should never be forgotten: give little, give seldom and, above all, give grudgingly…”
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While the ideal husband would be one who would approach his bride only at her request and only for the purpose of begetting offspring, such nobility and unselfishness cannot be expected from the average man. Most men, if not denied, would demand sex almost every day. The wise bride will permit a maximum of two brief sexual experiences weekly during the first months of marriage. As time goes by she should make every effort to reduce this frequency. A good wife should expect to have reduced sexual contacts to once a week by the end of the first year of marriage and to once a month by the end of the fifth year of marriage. By their tenth anniversary many wives have managed to complete their child bearing and have achieved the ultimate goal of terminating all sexual contacts with the husband.
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...she can depend upon his love for the children and social pressures to hold the husband in the home. One heartening factor for which the wife can be grateful is the fact that the husband’s home, school, church, and social environment have been working together all through his life to instil in him a deep sense of guilt in regards to his sexual feelings… so that he comes to the marriage couch apologetically and filled with shame, already half cowed and subdued. The wise wife seizes upon this advantage and relentlessly pursues her goal first to limit, later to annihilate completely her husband’s desire for sexual expression.
This post has been edited by Shiara: 24 July 2009 - 05:17 AM